is this mid life crsis

last SG · 2011-03-07T12:01:29+00:00

I am in the same situation like you, feeling life is aimless. But what you can do is firstly to boost your own self-confidence, everyones unique, even if you...

angel7030 SG

Then what is mid life crisis?

Unable to sleep throughout the day?

And tried out easily?

Very sleepy yet cant sleep?

In the mid of your life, you face a crisis, but the fact that in 1/4 and 3/4 of your life, you also face crisis, but a different crisis altogether, at young age, you got school examin crisis, at teenage, you got hormone change crisis, at youth stage, you got relationship and money crisis, then at 30s, which i hv not got thru, you got career and family crisis, then at mid life, if you still have crisis, than i think for the first part of your life, you learnt NOTHING!

angel7030 SG

There 2 types of crisis, the natural and the self make, many peoples make their own crisis, just by getting older is a crisis to them, that is a psychological problem, not a crisis, you may see this and that as crisis, but actually, there is no crisis, but merely a self make crisis.

I urge those feeling their own life in crisis to look at people sufferring from natural crisis, the like of earthquake, flood, fire, malnutrition, lack of food, drought and so on...you will find that you are actually living in heaven

redname SG

Aiya, Ah neh, nowaday, what live band are u talking abt, most are beggar bands lor, if you really want life ban, go chinese funneral, everynite also got free life band

pls dnt insult the music industry like tht, thank you

angel7030 SG

pls dnt insult the music industry like tht, thank you

today where got live band, those are old days type, please understand that i am trying to shift people to a new era, there is hardly a chance playing live band in singapore can get you anywhere...thanks

Julian.khor SG

Eh, u not keep in touch wif current trend la. Some people like to go pub wif bands. I got a fren who play bassist for his band at a pub.

I dun like DJ, they are like imitators, they take other people song n mix it up and claim it to be theirs.

angel7030 SG

no lah, u go disco, where got band, peoples now can play band themselves using computer, and we got this philipinos who are very good singer, singaporean no future one lah, unless you lucky become one top singer lor, live bands dun attract much, most are those half dead men, hv some gals, play hiphop and then have some good pop hiphop to go along, you see full house on sat/sun nite hor

redname SG

all i can say tht different type of places attract different crowds.

i just prefer places with live music/bands and of cus the genre of music makes a difference. hip hop just doesn't appeal to me, it's just a personal preference :)

live music/bands do attract crowds, just look at timbre, there are pple who are wiling to queue for hours just to get in and it's just a place to chill out, no heart pumping hip hop music at all.

coffeebreak SG

what genre of music do u play?

the bands scene is sg is not well compared to many other cities around the world...

play on redname.... the world needs more people like u

redname SG

what genre of music do u play?

the bands scene is sg is not well compared to many other cities around the world...

play on redname.... the world needs more people like u

all sorts actually. i lean towards more to funk and jazz but there's no stopping me to dish out a song from oasis or U2.

a lot of my songs are oldies but recently been helping my fren's music school so got exposed to some newer songs.

hey, thanks for the encouragement :)

redname SG

thank you all for the well-meaning posts and encouragement.

i think it's just a phase of life where i'm doing some self checking and start to feel lonely and sorts of things.

i realise tht where i am now basically comes from the kind of person i am. I'm a cross over person that has parts of an introvert and extrovert.

angel7030 SG

all i can say tht different type of places attract different crowds.

i just prefer places with live music/bands and of cus the genre of music makes a difference. hip hop just doesn't appeal to me, it's just a personal preference :)

live music/bands do attract crowds, just look at timbre, there are pple who are wiling to queue for hours just to get in and it's just a place to chill out, no heart pumping hip hop music at all.

That's the problem with you, since you cannot get anything out of live band and facing a midlife crisis, why not try other way to entertain yourself, the broader you open yourself to the scene, the more network you get and the more friends you make, in return you will be more cheerful and happy

angel7030 SG

thank you all for the well-meaning posts and encouragement.

i think it's just a phase of life where i'm doing some self checking and start to feel lonely and sorts of things.

i realise tht where i am now basically comes from the kind of person i am. I'm a cross over person that has parts of an introvert and extrovert.

Restart, shut down, standby.

redname SG

well, i have no problems hanging out in places tht you deem tht will draw the crowds but my preference is still those with live bands cause i really really love music.

i'm not saying this cause i think one place is better than the other but more on preference. it's like u dnt mind eating duck rice or chicken rice but you still prefer chicken rice at the end :)

angel7030 SG

well, i have no problems hanging out in places tht you deem tht will draw the crowds but my preference is still those with live bands cause i really really love music.

i'm not saying this cause i think one place is better than the other but more on preference. it's like u dnt mind eating duck rice or chicken rice but you still prefer chicken rice at the end :)

it up to you, entertainment area also want to compare to food, your honor, I have nothing more to say, Angel rest

likeyou SG

it up to you, entertainment area also want to compare to food, your honor, I have nothing more to say, Angel rest

Angel work too hard in her nite club....u need plenty of rest.

redname SG

it up to you, entertainment area also want to compare to food, your honor, I have nothing more to say, Angel rest

well, food was the 1st thing tht came to my mind to give an example of.

i can always use other things as examples if you want :P

angel7030 SG

Court adjourn!!!

likeyou SG

Court adjourn!!!

what?

angel7030 SG

All rise!

redname SG

All rise!

what thing rise?

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