I am in the same situation like you, feeling life is
aimless.
But what you can do is firstly to boost your own
self-confidence, everyones unique, even if you got rejected, brush
it off, one failed attempt dont mean anything.
One way is telling yourself that it is the girl's loss
for not accepting someone great like you (works for some people
surprisingly).
The next thing on your list should be making full use of your
weekends. One of my friends serving army told me " Freedom tastes
better when you have less ". Dont wait anymore. Go out with
your friends, cousins, anyone...make full use of your free time!
Strengthen friendships make bonds! If no friends? Make some.
Up to you to add colour to your own life. Your guitar and net
will be always there, friends come and go.
Huh? like this TS is bluffing himself, loss a gal somemore can
say the gal make a loss?? TS should not bluff himself, he should
face the reality of life, somehow, the world naturally produce
equal nos of males and females to match each other, just that for
this gal, the jigsaw cannot match, so TS hv to look for the next
piece, but that does not imply who lost or lose anything. And also,
you do need to aim in life, because if you aim and shoot and miss,
you get very sad and demotivated, lack nature takes it course, just
plan and do as per plan, and please, within the plan, have a
contingent plan just incase the plan dun work, and if all dun work,
re plan again...no need to aim at this and that, long term aiming
make you blur blur, so be smart, plan your life, even if you dun
plan, it is also a plan, just plan to fail.