when will singapore men wake up their idea?
when will our giovernment wake up their idea?
when are they going to realise that their FT policy is as wrong as
stop at two and their other policies
how long more???
Then when will Singaporeans wake up? Why does everyone frown on
the idea of an SG man marrying a foreign lady? If it remains good,
people will still talk bad behind them and expect something bad to
happen, but if something bad happens, everybody jumps in and start
firing off blindly. Why? Does it feel great to gloat over another's
misfortune? Would you dare say the same thing if you are right in
front of this poor person? Or is it simply easier to let loose your
disrespectful comments in a anonymous environment, without regards
to how people feel, and without having to be responsible for
it?
And is it okay to think that only bad marriages happen with
SG/foreigner combo? Seriously, I've heard of more bad SG/SG
marriages than you can ever imagine. Yes, there are the PRCs who
are out to scam, but isn't there the PRCs who really wanted to
settle down in SG? And for a fact, I know of a PRC who married an
SG uncle, they had 1 child, and they are living happily now. One
black sheep doesn't mean all sheeps are black.
"You just got PUNKED!! BIG TIME!!! Does she have a Singapore
citizenship now? If yes!!! hahahahahahahaha." - gUms, I don't
know whether you are a SG, but if you are, may I ask, so how does
it feel after putting down your fellow citizen like that? But if
your not a SG, forget what I said.
"Did you buy her from a matchmaking agency ? The agency
should have checked her marital background. Chances are, they did
and your SG marriage is a valid one.
Since you mentioned you've visited her in China before, you
should be able to find out from the local authorities there about
how you can verify her previous marital status.
If it's a scam, you can sue your matchmaking agency for a
full refund, and seek to nulify the SG marriage.
But then again, you're a fool, and you may not get your
recourse.
A high level executive you say ? Who's gonna believe that
?
Probably another poor, old, fat ugly fart buying a young
wife from China.
Serves you right." - jojobeach, may I ask how did you
arrive with these conclusions? With your assumptions based on cases
where SG men got conned? With your assumptions that most men in
such cases are poor, old, fat and ugly? Why don't you ask the man
instead of wild guessing and then slapping the man with your
assumptions? Here, I'm assuming your an adult, so as adults, we
need to be responsible for what we say, especially things that may
hurt others, and we also need to be able to justify what we say,
simply setting a rifle to auto and fire off is not a good
idea.
And again, I'm asking that fellow forumers contribute if you
can, and move along if you have nothing useful to offer.
