may I ask how did you arrive with these conclusions? With your
assumptions based on cases where SG men got conned? With your
assumptions that most men in such cases are poor, old, fat and
ugly? Why don't you ask the man instead of wild guessing and then
slapping the man with your assumptions? Here, I'm assuming your an
adult, so as adults, we need to be responsible for what we say,
especially things that may hurt others, and we also need to be able
to justify what we say, simply setting a rifle to auto and fire off
is not a good idea.
And again, I'm asking that fellow forumers contribute if you
can, and move along if you have nothing useful to offer.
For this case, he was not conned. His China bride RAN AWAY. Big
difference.
After married, do you still believe your money is still yours
? Assets are now shared, that's why it's called a MARRIAGE.
Not a business transaction with no strings attached. So 10k, 20k,
100k, does it matter ? No.
His China bride don't even bother to file for a divorce, she RAN
AWAY. That means she is NOT wanting to come back to this little
ISLAND PRISON in the future.
In her mind, SG MEN are HORRID.She RAN AWAY.
SG men think they can BUY love. In fact, they think they can buy
a permanent maid with bedroom benefits.They think they OWN the
woman just because the men used their money to BUY the rights.
Some men with China/foreign mail order brides treat their
foreign spouse like prisoners. The only thing they didn't do is
make the women wear a location tracker on their necks. They don't
allow them to go back to their home country as often as they like.
They control them like dogs. Feed/give them what they want them to
eat/receive, and expect the wife to be grateful and
appreciative.Singapore is but an ISLAND PRISON to these women.
Singapore is a tiny Island country. Foreign brides came from
countries with HUGE land mass. Singaporeans are used to living on a
dot, they arn't. They will get island fever, they will get home
sick. Are you prepared to give them the freedom to move about
freely just like before they get married to a SG man ?
Unfortunately, most SG men are selfish and too miserly.
Of course I am not saying ALL men with mail order brides are
like that, but MOST of them are. Thread starter sounds like one of
those CONTROLLING men, and the only way she can get away is when
her mom is dying. That's pathetic.
Women are humans too. Stop treating women who are financially
and socially disadvantaged like an object you can own.
Until, SG men who choose to BUY foreign brides, get over their
"little men" syndrome, more of marital tragedy will continue to
happen.
As for the ugly old fart part. Think about this. 2 years with
her and no kids.How many high level executive do you know that's
under the age of 35 ? Not in Singapore.
He's probably an older man divorced with children from his
previous marriage. No Singaporean girls will even wanna touch him
with a 10 foot pole.
