Why is it so hard to find somebody we like

zzlee1 SG

you actually brought up a very good point. i think i understand what you trying to say. this is the reason why korean, japanese, taiwanese and hongkie gals all prefer to stick within their own kind. it is the identity and culture that makes their people feel proud. their gals thinking their men are better than the rest.

our sg gals are heavily influence by media from either western or other nationalities culture as mentioned above. very often these influences sources which most sg gals are exposed are drama, anime, movies and magazine. there is nothing for the gals to be proud of when they are with a sg guy except for monetary benefit. that is also why when a gal met a sg guy, she judge him based on his networth while when she met a korea, jap or cauasian, it is a total different ball game. suddenly the networth criteria is gone.

we used to be popular among taiwanese gals in the 70-80s during our training there. we used to be looked upon by the PRC and malaysian chinese. we used to be high demand because we can speak both english and chinese. we are like asian with western culture. all these has since gone since in the 90s.

even our govt advocated foreign is good. i dont want to venture too far as it is another topic all together.

first, let me put it clearly, I have no intention to marry a sg guy, i find my taiwan guys are more refine in a way of grooming and presentation, and more handsome too. We taiwanese still very much preserve our identity and culture, we still speak mingnan dialect and go thru traditional marriage like old times, respect our oldies and also work together as husband and wife in a more romantic sense, whereas singapore had lost most it identity with a culture becoming a rojak soon, there is no sense in it characteristic, and living is a burden for those lower income, given that with so much foreigners that is said to have helped the economy. Taiwan is good in it economy too, tho a bit of heat up in political, but we stand as one and go for our right with action rather than singapore just talk only. Not that taiwan do not have foreigners, we have less and are really talented other than domestic maids.

angel7030 SG

So many singles out there they can't find someone to settle down with, so its that tough to find someone we like lor....Among Singapore citizens aged 30 to 34 years, the proportion of singles rose significantly from 33 to 43 per cent for males, and from 22 to 31 per cent for females. This translates to a 10 per cent and 9 per cent increase respectively.

30 to 34, for a gal, it will be abit too late to form a family, might as well remain single and enjoy life, as for guys, tho matured to an influential society created here, in principle, their characters and thinking toward love and family relationship still very immature. Most, instead of looking to set up a family, are on games, clubbling and pubbing, career, gals, cars and drinks. But then, it is the society that prevented them from thinking of marriage, the high cost of living, the cost of rising a family, the need of building a strong and stable career in a stressful workplace, the agony of losing youth age if get married...etc etc are some of the causes of male delay or never get married and prefer to remain single, and once the male do not make it move and plan, they will not be serious in relationship, so they will court for the female, and you dun expect female to beg for male, which is against the nature of courting. So end up, single increases and low birthrates...which end up the govt taking a soft solution by bringing in more and more foreigners.

angel7030 SG

If you put yourself as a parent, what kind of son or daughter in law your preferred, given a choice, surely you will prefer your own kind of national, race and religion.

Demon Bane SG

What happens if upon old age eg.80+ and can't walk and plague by illness....nobody cares for you? Becos u choose to be single.....alone in the hospital....what then? Sad ending....

angel7030 SG

Angel,

Ur contingent plan not very gd la, if China invade Taiwan, then how?

Aiyoh, u obviously neva meet a lot of Indon gals. I hv two frens marry indon gals bcause they have no time to take care of their family. First one, marry indon christian gal, bcause he got to manage night club, got no time to take care of family due to night shift. Wife don't mind, as long he bring money back. Second fren, work in oil rig industry, many months in sea, marry indon wife he can trust. Good wife, bear two son for him, complain little and very easy to satisfy.

Indon gals r simple but they r by no means village woman, a lot of them come from the rural city not so metropolitan but they dun come from village, that I can assure u.

Dunno about yer delivery driver, sound like he is making a lot of lame excuses. Demanding wife is not good reason for overtaking annual leave and MC.

Wow, work in oil rig, that is the worst job in the world, all 3D apply, Dangerous, Demanding and Dirty. Now let said he works in the oil rig, married a sg gal of at least a diploma like me, so, he earns 8k and I earn 4k per month as a specialist or chemist, we get 12k, and as time goes on I get promoted, earning 7k and he get older, earning not much change, maybe 9k, and as you know, oil rig do not want older people, so he might retire earlier, but he still have his wife earning and all the saving he kept. He will grow old gracefully and financially well taken care of. His wife, like me, knows how to invest here and there, get the best of profit and save for him, know how to buy property to make more money and so on. Bore him daughters and sons, given them full education and taught them well.

Now if another guy working same with him gets a rural Indo gal, do you think he is going to be financially stronger and that his wife knows how to invest, earn money and care for childrens in a knowledgeable ways??

For every success man, behind lies a successful woman

angel7030 SG

What happens if upon old age eg.80+ and can't walk and plague by illness....nobody cares for you? Becos u choose to be single.....alone in the hospital....what then? Sad ending....

Can live up to 80+ very happy liao,...why not? maybe not in other countries, you may end up dying on the street, but if you are financially rich and well, as a man, you can always get the most beautiful philpino nurses to take care of you, you may not be able to do that if you have an old wifey, as a gal, you can alway get the most handsome butler to take care of you.

And in Singapore, you get people give way to you, on bus, mrt, or even walking on the road, you also get discount for oldies here and there. So what if you married, you may end up more worry about going, worry about if first son takes all the money or second daughter never come and see you, or third son's child dunno can come back in time or not and so on...end up you more worst than being a single who can die peacefully, and dun worry lah, me Angel will come and pick you and fly you to heaven, let be frank, there are many places much better than earth, dunno why people like to cling on to earth..haiz

Demon Bane SG

For every success man, behind lies a successful woman

Quite true nowadays....but I prefer to share HDB flat repayments with someone, not uneducated female from Indo or China...

Demon Bane SG

You always so optimistic? While I was hospitalized a few years ago, I saw an old man lying on hospital bed waiting to die....nobody visited him...very sorry sight...

Angelakisses SG

thats life. the one u like always doesnt reciprocate and the one that u dont like will pester u for a long long time hahah

Demon Bane SG

thats life. the one u like always doesnt reciprocate and the one that u dont like will pester u for a long long time hahah

Yup! Quite true...I got a gal pestering me for many years...but I dun like her leh...hahaha! The only gal I like married liao.... That's life!

Beccalim SG

i used to like this guy for 3yrs ++ and in the end she ended up with a girl that he knew less than 2 weeks zzzz hais

Demon Bane SG

i used to like this girl for 3yrs ++ and in the end she ended up with a guy that she knew less than 2 weeks zzzz really sucks man

Wah lau...u sibeh suay siah....you spent how much $ ?

angel7030 SG

i used to like this guy for 3yrs ++ and in the end she ended up with a girl that he knew less than 2 weeks zzzz hais

are u lesbian?

angel7030 SG

thats life. the one u like always doesnt reciprocate and the one that u dont like will pester u for a long long time hahah

and after you married the one you liked, a few years down the road, you tend to regret not taking up the one who liked and pestered you...that's also life ya

Julian.khor SG

Aiya, nowaday, I see a lot of children dump their 80 year old parents to old folk's home. Why worry about become old? Sometime even, the wife die early than the husband, he live old alone.

People marry bcause they want to start family or want to share life not for having company to grow old.

Julian.khor SG

You always so optimistic? While I was hospitalized a few years ago, I saw an old man lying on hospital bed waiting to die....nobody visited him...very sorry sight...

May be old man got family but family too busy to visit him. So marry or not marry, no diff la. Important thing is make sure you children dun treat u like tis next time u become old. Take care of family better ok? If neglect, children will end up uncaring like the old man lying in hospital bed. Quality more important than Quantity.

Julian.khor SG

and after you married the one you liked, a few years down the road, you tend to regret not taking up the one who liked and pestered you...that's also life ya

Haiz, nobody will eva like the one who pester you. For eg, crazy Miss Bonker, like to pester people wan. Crazy lady from IMH.

ChoCoChips SG

活该没人要.

TTFU SG

mistyblue SG

活该没人要.

lol

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