Why is it so hard to find somebody we like

zzlee1 SG

you marry based on your parent's wish? that is ancient.

nowadays, most parents are ok with another other asian. i guess singaporean parents are generally more "easy-going".

If you put yourself as a parent, what kind of son or daughter in law your preferred, given a choice, surely you will prefer your own kind of national, race and religion.

Demon Bane SG

May be old man got family but family too busy to visit him. So marry or not marry, no diff la. Important thing is make sure you children dun treat u like tis next time u become old. Take care of family better ok? If neglect, children will end up uncaring like the old man lying in hospital bed. Quality more important than Quantity.

I guess we may never know right? Perhaps like u said was true....but having to die lonely in hospital....sad ending....whether married or not.

Julian.khor SG

I guess we may never know right? Perhaps like u said was true....but having to die lonely in hospital....sad ending....whether married or not.

Yeah lor, tat is why I say must take care of children well. Don't neglect afterward when they grow big, they become like tat old man in hospital's children (assuming he got children).

So marry or not marry, may still end up same way. Everything is fated.

Demon Bane SG

Yeah lor, tat is why I say must take care of children well. Don't neglect afterward when they grow big, they become like tat old man in hospital's children (assuming he got children).

So marry or not marry, may still end up same way. Everything is fated.

Even if u treated your children well, also no guarantee happy ending....

angel7030 SG

aiya, marry is only a buzz word to be broadcast to everyone that you already belong to someone, a family, a wife/husband. Customary marriages and ROM are actually going thru a motion to declare yourself that you are bonded to someone else. And as a bride or bridegroom, it is day where you are the most stupid in your life, peoples ask you to kneel, you kneel, ask to smile, you smile, ask you to do this and that, you also do, what a stupid day. The very next day after the marriage day, the guy lost his freedom of movement, the gal lost her admirers and chasers, and when the baby arrive, god bless them, both become more stress and not long, looks like uncle and aunty already see those with toddlers crying and running...aiyo, sian bo.

Best is freedom lah, can go with any guy, can chop here and there, remain beautiful and active all the way.

angel7030 SG

Even if u treated your children well, also no guarantee happy ending....

which insurance companies will insure you on that??

Demon Bane SG

Best is freedom lah, can go with any guy, can chop here and there, remain beautiful and active all the way.

Are u saying most marriage are unhappy ones? How about true love? Rare but still possible right?

Demon Bane SG

which insurance companies will insure you on that??

Maybe insurance should include this huh?? Sure lose $ one....hahaha!

angel7030 SG

Are u saying most marriage are unhappy ones? How about true love? Rare but still possible right?

Not that all marriage are unhappy ones lah, just that after 20 years after marriage, both start to realize that they lack of freedom, so end up in lots of affair lor, here affair, there affair, office affair, workplace affair, school affair, public affair...home affair..

Demon Bane SG

So u are against marriage? What happens if some cute guy propose to you? Will you stick to your "being single" principles ?

angel7030 SG

Cute dun entice me, more important is his bank accounts and current assets. Cute for what? 5 or 10 years down the road, cute face also become crook face. Only those stupid gal frens of mine go for cute?? most end up get cheated or no money.

Demon Bane SG

Wahhh...u so practical type huh? I agree with you....$ is most important in any relationship....best get a rich spouse...less domestic problems and less quarrels. Hahaha!

Julian.khor SG

Angel O Angel, dun underestimate the power of marriage. Every woman most important treasure is Children. Yes, children. When a woman grow old, she is proud to hv children to support her n talk to her. Woman got three thing most important 1) Children 2) Money 3) Security

Angel, u dont wan to grow old n lonely like Miss Little Bonker wif no children, hateful, miserable towards single sg guys.

angel7030 SG

Wahhh...u so practical type huh? I agree with you....$ is most important in any relationship....best get a rich spouse...less domestic problems and less quarrels. Hahaha!

True mah,...got money than you can do charity, if not, you can't even support a yourself, talk about family for what??

cute boy: angel, will you marry me..pleeeassseee,./// I love you

angel: how much in your bank, and beside that cute asset, what other assets you have to prove that you are worthy of my hand

cute boy: Now I work as a sale executives, later i can become a manager and so on...later I will be very rich. Trust me!

angel: so the most you can go is sales manager, that is a lame job, a labourer, bet you cannot even buy a HDB flat now, talk so much for what?? chay!

Demon Bane SG

True mah,...got money than you can do charity, if not, you can't even support a yourself, talk about family for what??

cute boy: angel, will you marry me..pleeeassseee,./// I love you

angel: how much in your bank, and beside that cute asset, what other assets you have to prove that you are worthy of my hand

cute boy: Now I work as a sale executives, later i can become a manager and so on...later I will be very rich. Trust me!

angel: so the most you can go is sales manager, that is a lame job, a labourer, bet you cannot even buy a HDB flat now, talk so much for what?? chay!

Hahaha! U are born rich....so u may have many choices....

angel7030 SG

I prefer to call myself, Born Free..i think there is a old song...someone told me

Demon Bane SG

I prefer to call myself, Born Free..i think there is a old song...someone told me

I agree with you....freedom plus $ is most important. But its so hard to find somebody we like for friendship or marriage....

angel7030 SG

I agree with you....freedom plus $ is most important. But its so hard to find somebody we like for friendship or marriage....

freedom, +$ + a compassionate heart/mind is important for our well being, accept the unacceptable, for if I dun go to hell, who will go to hell?

Julian.khor SG

freedom, +$ + a compassionate heart/mind is important for our well being, accept the unacceptable, for if I dun go to hell, who will go to hell?

A lot of marriage not very happy but end of the day wat make the marriage happy is the children. Wif children, the family got meaning. U know how happy is a mother when she got daughter? Somebody to share gal talk, cook together, etc. Wif children, marriage got continuity.

Demon Bane SG

You painted a very beautiful picture of marriage....but u din include the pains of bringing up children....most of the time couples quarrel becos of children....

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