affairs are quite common in these days as society is opening
up.
better tell ur father that you all have discover it already and
see what he is going to do about it. If he is unrepentent, then
your mum can file for divorce...
just live on with your life even if you all have to settle
divorce thing. There are more important thing to worry about in
life. Take it as a lesson. Guys often are not loyal one in these
societies.
well, I differ a bit.
what is society is opening up? I think our values are
eroding.
In the past, couples are match-made, but can last time, cause
they know they are in it for the long haul and try to work all
problems out.
now, with the westernised influence, divorce/marriage is a trip
to vegas' booth or a simple trip to lawyers.
of course, I am not negating those cases where there are
abusive, martial rapes and etc.
but do be objective, not all guys are disloyal, we all know that
some gals are always scaling the walls and hanky panky.
as for TS, i think the confrontation may be explosive, it would
be good to get someone respected in your family, of course a
cool-headed one, and have a family meeting. I still think it needs
to be worked internally and not a full-blown affair.
and resorting to violence/intimidation may sometimes
backfire.
just my two cents. no offense, Jan.