May I know any examples of voluntary organizations or whatever?
Btw, shld I put this job into my resume? Like I said, I would have
a year's gap if I don't and also, even though I c*ock up
everything, like doing all the crazy stupid things here, showing
girly feelings towards my male colleagues (eeww), can't filter out
whatever instructions it is, took in all the abuse/praises and
thinking they are real and even showed jealousy/fear towards some
female/male colleagues...until the last min, I figure out what is
over here...a lot of teamworks, psychology, probably some IQ work
is going on here. My god, one of my colleague here is so experience
and smart, it's crazy. I learnt alot here and like I said, some
part of me also changed while I am here and realised a lot of
things are not what it seemed to be.
I mean....whoever got this job is really, really lucky. I also
partially thank this job for making me open up my eyes to how
exactly a job is done.
The only thing I regretted over here is how the way I
screamed and yelled like a mad woman at my colleagues.
You may want to visit NCSS (National Council of Social
Services):
for general stuff:
http://www.ncss.org.sg
for career services:
http://www.ncss.org.sg/Career/Career%20in%20NCSS.asp
Or try Community Development Council (http://www.cdc.org.sg/)
employment services, eg.:
http://www.northeastcdc.org.sg/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=17&Itemid=161
You just need to build up your self-confidence first, as you had
negative experiences. Since you are aware that you were largely
responsible for much of those experiences, so you just have to
learn from your past mistakes, and not repeat those mistakes, and
do better in your future job.
You should just list down all your jobs that you have worked in
your resume, else the employment gap will give you problems in
finding another job. If a potential employer needs
references, you can list down other people who know you well
besides your previous employers, if they don't specifically request
for it. Generally, if you are applying for a very
basic entry-level job, I believe employers won't bother to
spend too much time/effort in finding out past job histories.
Just learn from your past, and look forward to your
better future. Just focus on not over-reacting to people around
you, and you should find it easier to work with people.
All the best! :)
Rainbow Jigsaw of Life
