now before more of you sanctimonious dicks get onto your "moral"
high horsies.
why don't you guys dig deep and imagine if this happens to you
(assuming, of course, that you're normal, straight, and have a
fruitful marriage, if you're a swinger for the other team too then
that's another story, your opinion would be naturally coloured and
biased)
Imagine one of your sons outing himself and declaring a
preference for the dung tube to the honey pot. Imagine him bringing
back a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend.
Yeah, sure, it's easy to act liberal and open minded and tell
someone else to open his mind, after all, it's not your kid here. I
find this similar to those yellow ribbon projects thingy; Gays,
like ex-convicts, are most easily acceptable if found in someone
elses' family, not yours.
So sod off yah, if you're not showing some sympathies here. I
see a man who've tried his best to provide for his son everything
that he's wanted, an expensive overseas education, letting him do
his own thing and pursue his own degree of interest. This is a
father who loves his son dearly, he is NOT a selfish dad ! Notice
that even now, he's not even confronted his son yet ? Who's calling
him selfish again ?
And for those who've told this man off, how many of you are
brokebackers, really ?
I very agree with Fatum, everyone's got their own opinion but when
dealing with a situation when one's son has become
a homosexual orientated person, it is not an easy issue to
deal with.
The insensitive brokebackers doesn't seem to know how TS feels
like if one day their son bring along their blackie boyfriend and
say "Hi dad, this is my boyfriend, we have been going out for 3
years, we share the same bed and we cook for each other". I am sure
the insensitive brokebackers will surely say it in a smartass way
that they can take it and they will accept whatever their son does
so as long it is not against the law. See one day, if these
brokebackers get into this situation, they probably die of a heart
attack, so don't be so rash and harsh to judge TS, you haven't been
thru his situation. From the sound of it the TS is not being
unforgiving to his son, reading his thread, it sounds like he wants
to understand how his son feel and wants to know how he can solve
the problem without chasing his son away.
I emphatise with TS and hope that the situation can be amicably
solved.