SOCIAL ANXIETY

last SG · 2010-08-06T13:28:11+00:00

never try never knowif u know u going to die tml, would u just go out and have a life or just stay at home and whine and cry and sob and etc etc

LonelyApple SG

Hi LoneyApple,

Tell your anxiety problem in details to you close friend/family member u can trust, then ask him/her to follow u to see the psychiatrist/psychologist, that way yr friend can explain clearly about yr problem to them in case u have trouble explaining ..

When the psychiatrist have assessed your problems, he will then decide whether you need medication and/or just therapy

The constant stress u experienced from yr anxiety everyday will wear u down soon, in my case I withdrawn and hide in the house for comfort, and serious anxiety sufferer like me then to avoid the places that make me anxious, but the house soon become a prison for me, lock up by my own fear.., you don’t want that to happen to u..

I think it best u don’t try temp job first.. deal with the anxiety problem first ..

nah. nobody understands me. i wouldnt talk to anybody abt it. they dont understand the shit. its humiliating at the same time. everything i do, i do it alone without anybody knowing. i dont have anybody close. tt is why i'm Lonely. i cant open up to anybody.

i have a hard time working especially in service line. but i dont have a choice. i need money for many things. im really broke due to my impulsiveness.

(better not rant too much)

okay, i'll find a psycologist soon:) actually, can u recommend me one? did u see a private or govt one? govt one takes a long time i heard.

Doom995 SG

Woman is the medicine. Try to ask ur frens recommend girls for u or if not, the fastest way is to go geylang n pay 50 bucks..it really will kill ur fear.After u will be happy n keep smiling for whole day…

brainerror SG

i think you got it wrong.
like seriously.

eeden. SG

so..how many times have we got posts in AA where the problem always start from wrong thinkings from OP himself/herself?

@OP get out of your so called misery zone.or rather,grow up.your problems sound the same as anyone else,and it doesn't make you different by posting this thread.

Simple_Bear SG

LonelyApple SG

lmao! dude, i've declared that imma Female for the zillionth time. dont tell me sex is the cure. .

LonelyApple SG

so..how many times have we got posts in AA where the problem always start from wrong thinkings from OP himself/herself?

@OP get out of your so called misery zone.or rather,grow up.your problems sound the same as anyone else,and it doesn't make you different by posting this thread.

shut up. im nt talking to you. u dun have to be here anyway. by posting, im trying to get advice (esp from sufferers). im not gna argue w u anymore.

eeden. SG

shut up. im nt talking to you. u dun have to be here anyway. by posting, im trying to get advice (esp from sufferers). im not gna argue w u anymore.

so this is a mourning ground

/me leaves op and other mourners at peace

CutePenguin SG

holy cow -_-

Doom995 SG

Oh…i thought u are a guy sorry…

LonelyApple SG

so this is a mourning ground

/me leaves op and other mourners at peace

LonelyApple SG

so this is a mourning ground

/me leaves op and other mourners at peace

i'm nt pitying myself!

brainerror SG

Oh…i thought u are a guy sorry…

not everyone of us are guys.

eeden. SG

i'm nt pitying myself!

enlighten me then,the true purpose of this thread,other than to tell everyone how disastrous your life is heading (which after reading the thread,i deduce that many of it comes from your willful thinking that the world's made of rainbows and unicorns)?believe me,you just haven't seen far worse situations.

cherish your youth while you can.i've trying to do so for the past few years.

LonelyApple SG

cherish your youth while you can.i've trying to do so for the past few years.

i do want to cherish. i've said the purpose is to seek advice. even someone says its hard for me to feel loved. becus my family isnt complete.

i'm really confused. . it's like a cycle. really irritating.

eeden. SG

and honestly speaking,are you heeding their advices full-heartedly?

if yes and you're still the same i'd have nothing to say.prolly the only way out is to visit a shrink.

if no,i'd reinstate the first comment i'd made.

LonelyApple SG

i said tt i'll go soon. .

eeden. SG

but first,have you even made an attempt to change your mentality/attitude towards life?it seems to me (at least from the posts in this thread) that you're still the same.

LonelyApple SG

but first,have you even made an attempt to change your mentality/attitude towards life?it seems to me (at least from the posts in this thread) that you're still the same.

what do you mean? i dont know. . i think i cant treat my anxiety alone. but i dont know how to improve my r/s with others. its really like an impossible thing to me. i've nv been close with anyone for years. . it's so awkward with them. .

Kannonjoe SG

Hi LoneyApple,

"o okay, i'll find a psycologist soon:) actually, can u recommend me one? did u see a private or govt one? govt one takes a long time i heard."

I saw the govt psychiatrist, two weeks later , referred through the polyclinic.

I think govt. one is the best, the treatment/consultation is mostly government subsided ,definitely a lot cheaper, like polyclinic rates..(except for certain medications that are not under subsided list), also if you are in financial difficulties , you can approach the social workers under the govt. psychiatrist to waive the bills to tide u over, until u have the ability to pay the future bills..

so you don’t need to worry abt getting temp jobs to pay your bills, ok?

treatment will take some time, maybe months..( years for me..) you have to be patient..

You have to be referred through the polyclinic in order to be govt subsided. Takes a few weeks.(u don’t need to be admitted immediately, only for critical cases, usually through A& E dept), that's why I keep repeating u approach the polyclinic first..

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