Then u ask him for constructive criticsm. Like seriously.
Tell him u are not a mind reader. Then if he insists on
just being an ass, you remind him the reason why you are all here
as a band. Not just a band. A church band.
I mean no doubt, talented musicians tend to want perfection. But
perfection comes with practice and communications especially in a
band. Given that talent is a key component here. And it does get
frustrated when there is a lack of synergy. But it would
equally be as cruel to tell another he got no talent. But this aint
a rock band. Many musicians ... I am talking in church,
forget why the are up there in the first place. Not to perform per
se to your fans. But to express the music that is tied to the
scriptures the message .. in simple, gloryfying your
God.
As a musician, you must be able to comprehend another's
limit ma. If he thinks he is so talented, I am sure its not a
problem for him to slow down a bit or alter certain beats to your
rythm right? You tell him that.
And those that are in the praise and worship are either
volunteers, touched or something to do God's work, or just have
musical skills and was asked to be part of the group.
So which one is he ?
And no doubt there definately be issues like this in most
churches, hell.. in almost any kind of group. lol . If reason
doesnt work with him, you try being more bible. If all else fails..
just ignore his ass.
If he insist on being like that, he will leave himself one.
lol
Just give him some room to wiggle around. Dont corner him too
much when you confront him. Cause I am sure your intention is to
have everyone be in synergy.
i'll try my best to be patient with him as i do find most of wat u
mention very true.
I'm more of a person that will ignore things or pple rather than
confront them basically for the reason that i wish to be more laid
back and dnt wanna get too worked out on things