your boyfriend's behavior is beyond friendship. anyone is able
to tell just from the way you describe their level and frequency of
interaction.
there is 99.99% chance that your boyfriend likes her
consider the points below
1. maybe she is not interested in him otherwise they would be
together
2. they might have been a couple before
2. your boyfriend dare not or has not confess to her before
3. since she is single and there are no guys she is interested
in at the moment, so she is using your boyfriend for entertainment
purposes. if he can treat her so well, why not just make use of
him? anyway, its your boyfriend throwing himself at her.
4. in your boyfriend's heart, she is still number one. since he
cannot get her, he doesn't mind being her 'friend' at least he
still get to interact with her. in his heart, you are number two,
not number one.
what your boyfriend is doing is inappropriate, no girl in their
right mind would be able to accept. its very natural and right for
you to feel weird because he is doing something wrong so openly but
just using the excuse/disguise of friendship
due to your love for your boyfriend, its very hard for you to
accept the reality that he is actually openly cheating on you
behind the disguise of friendship. you are even going to the extent
of helping him find reasons to make it acceptable to do so.
you deserve someone better. someone who treats you as no. 1 in
his heart, not no. 2.
are you shortchanging yourself? stop lying to yourself and
living in denial.
Hi There
He and She is purely good friend.
* they have never been together
* dont think my BF in love with SHE, but he adore her for
sure.
* maybe there's ever a chem btw him to her never know but that's
already the past
* my BF is a friend kinda person.... he treasure friend and GF
and Friends are almost equally improtant for him.
anyway he's trying to be sensitive toward this issue and aware
of my uncomfortable zone. he hardly mention abt SHE infront of her.
and of cos delete all the msg with SHE. cos their msg is alway my
dear, my darling and some little name they have named way way back.
with the effort I'm contented. as long as he know how to draw a
line I will be good
back to SHE sometime bestie SHE will comment to
him like
* HE only look for SHE when he's free (meaning that he only ask
her out now when he's not with her gf) * she will say - pple change
once they have gf
once SHE make this kinda emtional comments my BF will feel damn
guilty.
