Bearie,
This could also happen to guys, my ex gf was met somebody
special to her when she was going out with me for 5 years, so she
wanted to break up with me, said all sorts of nasty things at me,
say I very poor, complain about my tardiness, say I don't know how
to treat her nice and even say bad things about my family.
Sometimes, we cannot generalise that guys do this kind of things,
even some gals also do this kind of nasty thing. Same thing also
happen to me, when she was going to marry, she wanted to make peace
with me, call me up, but I didn't respond. BUt I have no regrets,
it was for the best, what good use of meeting her anyway? She
already ask for break up through the telephone and refuse to meet
me.
But happiness always find each of us in the end. I found my
second gf, and she is not singaporean. Good thing, now I am more
happier. So Bearie, you had a very sucky bf, he wanted to make
peace and you were right to shit him back, serve him right. But
now, is time to move on...find another new luv, learn to trust,
open your heart and take risk.
You see, me as a guy, when my ex hurt me like this, nobody
cared, nobody bothered because it was a girl who did this to the
guy. But you have support, because a guy did this to you. I had to
go through the pain and recover myself. Always know this, there is
always hope, so don't give up. Your ex bf don't deserve you, his
new wife will suffer and shall soon see his true colors.
