hey Divorce is a super EXPENSIVE. TIME TAKING AND INVOLVED ALOT
OF CRAP.
Revenge441 : just want to
tell u. HDB got to sell off or return to HDB. meaning no place for
u to live.
gonna pay for contesting. meaning it will be contestable. for
flat splitting when sold, for kids.
Separation Deeds. 3 years of separation if he agree. else 4
years. then you still got to go through alot of Shit like going to
court , hiring lawyers.
Going through that is not the painful part. the finger pointing
by friends. people saying bad about you. your family, his family.
yes your mother will blame you regardless, not now, not tomorrow,
but SURE, for SHAMING HER. she will hate you in her heart, not
telling you, not telling anyone, but SURE.
when your kids grow up they will HATE YOU. for making their life
miserable. why people got good family and they don't have. they
will not tell u, but sure they will hate you.
GUYS. ALL MANS. ALL HUMAN, LADY OR MAN. sure got problem. this
is just a problem. can be solve. just need to STOP your naughty
flirty husband for doing that . he might think it is very "SHOICK"
to go through that and very happy. but when he know he is wrong he
will got to stop.
Until he is hopless then you consider DIVORCE.
The other people say divorce here because 1) they have no idea
what divorce is
2) they just say say using their mouth without care, they think
this is just a topic so share their idea.
3) Divorce? you going to divorce him after 10 years and got 2
children already just like that, never bother to chat with him and
tell him u know about the cheating he've been doing and just
secretly divorce? and posting here asking a group of people who
don't know what is divorce that you want to divorce?
well. you can go to http://www.singaporebrides.com , there is a
colum inside :Matters Of The Heart . read
inside and see how's the proccess of divorcing and people talking
inside. it's better not to divorce then divorce unless really got
no choice.
Ang Moh culture is normal to divorce. Many of my ang moh friends
remarry, that is why they say life starts at 40. And they start a
new family with kids.
But Asian culture, they stigmatise divorcees. And it is
very hard especially for Asian women divorcees to remarry because
of the Asian men preference. Always Asian women divorcees go marry
Ang mohs because Ang mohs can tolerate.
But you have one advantage - you can ask for alimony so your
husband got to support you and your child, you do not need to
struggle to find job. And then as ex wife, you can get half your
husband's assets. Talk about equal revenge. He will cringe at the
loss of his properties.
But remember, the stigma and your child will grow
fatherless.
