Hamsterbaby,
Why are you so angry at women? I think the above posts were
directed at all straying and cheating spouses (regardless of
gender). Its just that these posters were female and they probably
empathized with revenge441 as a woman too.
Don't you agree that its more common to find cheating husbands
than wives although I know these days, women are very liberal and
are equally likely to cheat on their husbands.
In the situation of cheating husbands, the wives have to look
after the children and thus have more to suffer. More often, the
responsibility of looking / caring for the children in a broken
marriage falls on the woman and not the man. And having put in much
of her youthful years into building the family, she now has to
continue shouldering the care for the children alone.
Stop Being delusional.
Singapore Women are educated , smart and sophisticated.
They have no doubt earn themselves a place in our previously
male dominated society which is a good thing.
Women in our country no doubt have more rights in what they do
and a much better social standing than anywhere else in Asia.
However the backlash that comes along with such attributes tend
to revolutionize the thinking of women.
Point is , women in our generation have no qualms in giving up
their kids and dump them to someone else or leave them alone.
Alot of men I know have taken a back seat when it comes to such
situation.
Call it coincidence or I just mix with the wrong crowd. I have
seen close family friends and personal friends marraige break
apart.
Husband was great but just couldn't afford the luxuries the lady
wants. Had kids, wife dumped kids to the husband and ran away with
Ang Mos.
Husband left with the kid and bringing them up by themselves.
The tide is evidently changing in Singapore. The amount of women in
Singapore putting their husbands or ex husband in a fix like this
is completely astounishing.
And if you girls feel that equality amongst Gender is an issue ,
you can be assured that it is right now . There is an equal
amount or even more Men going through such bullshit than women
thats for sure.
The only reason why you don't see Men complaning about it is due
to Pride .
Regards