TTFU, can't I beat my wife when I find she is unfaithful.
Anyway, I have stopped that because I realise it is not going the
solve the problem.
The Bear, yes, I agree I am focusing on building the
relationship now. But, this guy manipulated and escaped from
Singapore. I could not do anything. I was totally confused last
year. The good thing is my mind never thought of divorce because
deep in my heart I loved her so much (she tells me that I never
expressed it to her)
When we can bring the Romanian ambassador under our law, why not
in this case? I see it is well planned by him.
Asromanista, my wife said everything started after her delivery
though he has been approaching her while she was pregnant. My blood
group is unique in the family and my son follows, and also my wife
said she is not so stupid to carry another man's baby.
Jojobeach, you write like that because you did not know much
about me. When my wife delivered, I got busy with Tsunami helping
people for 1-2 years. My wife says that I got so much passion into
it that I forgot about her. She says always I talk only about those
families who got affected. People are passionate to helping other
people, you consider them as "neglecting their own family".
The guy has been watching her closely. When he realised I am not
closer to her during those years, he used the opportunity to
manipulate her. My wife is not going thru' hell. She says she feels
much relieved and peaceful these days. Probably, you would not have
come across good people in life.
A woman needs her man the most during and post delivery of her
baby. But you were not there for her.
You were there helping Tsunami people ? Your passion for
"helping" is really your passion to feel good about yourself. You
are not the only one who can help them.
If those Tsunami people know what you had to sacrifice to help
them.. they'd tell you.." Abang , go back to your family, they need
you more than us."
You didn;t leave your wife .. not because you love her .. but
because you had GUILT. That's why you had a hard time "expressing"
your remorse.
That man didn't manipulated your wife... He saw how you
neglected her.. and offered his shoulders so that she may depend on
it.
If anything.. you should be THANKFUL to him for being there for
your wife when you were not.
You don't love your wife do you ? I seriously doubt you
do. Everything is about you and your anger towards another man
because he "tresspassed" your property , yes ?
When a man is only focusing on hate.. he cannot LOVE.
Love blinds us to faults, but hatred blinds us to virtue- Iba
Ezra.
