I like how SgLo[email protected] and Jojobeach are sharing their
opinion.
But while expressing your views please remember that ultimately
this is about Doss and his family and not about the both of
you...
One more thing, the BOTH of you are both very "idealistic"
Divorce doesnt necessarily means the end
Neither will reconciliation definately spell happiness
There are still alot of divorcees out there who still love and
respect each other and after divorcing then realise that divorcing
was a "mistake" and got back together.
Divorcing doesn't mean you will be bad parents. You can still
divorce and be good parents to your kids.
Divorcing just means not being together. Divorcing doesnt mean
self destruction.
Communication is the key. You need an understanding between all
3 parties (you, your wife and kids)
The future is unpredictable and life should not be sterotyped by
what we see in magazines or hear in news.
Your future lies in your own hands, be clear on that. Its up to
you and your wife to make it happen.
Ultimately the decision should lie with Dows and his wife. BOTH
of them need to make a decision.
It is not going to work if only one party decides. BOTH husband
and wife need to make a decision together and agree on that.
Just remember something thou, handle the issue with maturity and
responsibility.
Communication between both your wife and you are important. You
need to iron things out like 2 mature adults should.
I seriously dont care if you break your wifes nose while hitting
her or if your hands and heart hurts after hitting her.
I only care about how your kids will view that incident.
Your kids are the most innocent ones. Remeber that. Please do
not corrupt their innocent world.
Handle the issue with great care it isn't about you and your
wife now that you have kids.
