I'm a control freak?
look carefully. If you are in my situation, will you be
confused?
I just wanna know our current stand. She can easily reply, she
just like wat we are doing now. very comfortable n happy. yet she
flares up, saying i am forcing her for an answer on whether when we
are getting married and whether i am the right one which is not my
intention.
then she over reacted and got angry the whole night, now she
blames our frequency, blames me. then ok, i'm the bad guy?
Hey goofyzell,
I have been following your post. Haha. Anyway, from what i read,
I think your girl is a very sensitive person and has some form of
low self esteem? Usually such people would react very strongly and
"think too much" into a very simple sentence.
Try this. Never say anything that is straight forward or
anything which requires her to put herself at a risk to failure.
They are very afraid of failures.
E.g. Do you think we will get married? <-- Do not say it this
way.
Try/ Make up a story: I think it would be very shiok if we can
get a flat around seng kang area cos its small. I would like to
have a small nice family, 2 kids can already. Blabber on, revolve
around the topic of marriage life.
But once you see her face start to react negatively, change
topic! Say, want to watch movie? I always wanted to watch blah blah
blah.
As for her very "dao" attitude when you called to remind her,
don't bother about it. You will come across as petty. And when you
bring it up to her, she will get more irritated.
Will wait for your updates. =)