TS,
Like yourself, I married in my late 20s, and now ard your age,
sex is dwindling to a stage where the possibility of striking toto
is higher than having sex.
I also do not understand why women can survive without sex, or
any form of sexual phsyical contact. To be fair, they probably
wouldn't know why we need it too. My wife also allows me to release
my frustration by way of masturbating through porn and other
material, but this kind of relationship is a little trying. How
does one justify a relationship or marriage without sex?
Some of the women here(I do not want to name who) think we treat
our wives like prostitue just because we want sex, but this isn't
the case. We want it because we need it! I know far too many men
who go for alternatives like Geylang to seek out their urges, but
there are still some of us who love our wives enough with the
discipline or morality not to step into this stage.
However, I do not agree that you should try to lower your libido
by way of medication. We are who we are! 2 strangers who live
together, should try to compensate and accept each other as they
are, and not try to change their partner. All the views which we
have given, are well...just views and suggestions. It is still up
to you to make the decision.
Normally, if 2 person have some kind of problem, a 3rd party
person like counsellor would be good to help, provided both agreed
to go. It may not necessarily solve the problem, but it will let
each other see a different perspective of the relationship.
So, good luck to your efforts to for a better sex life :)
Frustrated guy,
Have you ever wondered why your wife don't really want to have
sex with you anymore ?
Have you taken a look in the mirror recently ?
Why do guys stop being attractive to their women after they get
married to a woman and have their kids ?
I've seen so many married men.. all they do is boast about how
fit they WERE.. how attractive they USED to be.Yah.. well.. that
was one out of many reasons why their gf married them back
then.
I agree.. married men are what they are.. pot bellies.. stinking
bodies and private.. manly bad habits.. farting pillows..... wow..
and their wives are suppose to be sooooo aroused...get real
dude.