HI guys n girls im a forty yr old guy who has a interest
in ,a thirty yr old gal from indo ,ive got not much money or
educ. but she is edc. degree gd position n ive got 3 kids widowed
she not married bfore , she says she loves me n wants to marry me
im not sure what is she gettin out of this ,she is losing out ,do u
think its true love or just for the sake of me a sporean n
she gettin a good life out of it .maybe its just a
infatuation temp.i dont lose anythin if i marry her in any way
.need a piece of advice from u all .i ve known her for about
three months .should i wait for some time ,thks
Does she knows you are not rich ? Are you living in a 3 bedroom
HDB ?
Does she knows you expects her to take care of your children
?
With a degree, will she wants to get a job in Singapore.
If she does, how will she take care of your young one ?
Does she has intention to have a child of her own ?
Will she need to send financial support to her own family back
in Indonesia ?
So many questions.. I hope you already have the answers to
them.
Not forgetting that some women can be rather flaky. Changing our
minds is not unusually usual.
While you may think you are getting a free nanny. She may think
otherwise. These kind of conflict is best avoided else it may turn
your peaceful family upside down.
