Want to marry or not

mancha SG

Rich Arabs go to Indonesia, marries a girl, enjoy, divorce, and go home. All legallly done.

Fugazzi SG

Intuitively it is an uphill climb and sooner than u know it will wear her out and u too; and most of all three months to clinch a marriage - aiyah - no-go!

Love - sorry - u dont love and nor does she. Most likely it is the mutual benefit scheme type lah - means to an end. She is a means to your end and vice versa. As to what the ends are - u self-honestly can guess lah. On her part - self-honestly she would know.

Good education, employment prospects are not guaranteed and never cast in stone.

Beware the myriad pitfalls and the emotional rollercoasters!

parn SG

she treats me well like a king ,my kids also need them ,they r 17,15 n 6 n the 6 yrs needs her the most as im at work all the time ,i will make sure she dosnt abuse or i still can kick her out as my kids r important to me,my love toward her is because of my kids cause ive seen her treating them better then me .if they wise up in time ive nothin to lose cause i need someone to look after the kids n teach them which she could do well as she has a good education.

.You better don't be with her because trash like you don't deserves to be with her.

She treats you well like a king, and you can still kick her out if something goes wrong in the future??

You need to hire a maid, not marry a maid

Great Heavens! SG

HI guys n girls im a forty yr old guy who has a interest in ,a thirty yr old gal from indo ,ive got not much money or educ. but she is edc. degree gd position n ive got 3 kids widowed she not married bfore , she says she loves me n wants to marry me im not sure what is she gettin out of this ,she is losing out ,do u think its true love or just for the sake of me a sporean n she gettin a good life out of it .maybe its just a infatuation temp.i dont lose anythin if i marry her in any way .need a piece of advice from u all .i ve known her for about three months .should i wait for some time ,thks

Give yourself some time. Loving someone should be unconditional. Despite your education or financial background, it's alright for someone to love you.

How about yourself? Do you love her the same way she loves you?

If you both love each other, there's no harm in waiting for a better time to marry.

All the best!!

Arapahoe SG

You need a maid or you need a wife?

So far he test drive the maid portion that seemed to work well......not sure how he test the wife portion....

I think he is better off match make......clean cut...send out his resume and see who decided to reply......

Xcert SG

get a pre-nuptial then !

what works in the US may not even be legal here.

dangerboi SG

TS knows the answer himself

opeth SG

TS, no 1 can help you except yourself. You have to judge it yourself.

How long have you known her?

Have you been to her hometown?

You have to convert to a Muslim.

« Previous Page