Omoshiroi. Hontou omoshiroi.
Allow me to point out the reality to you that you’ve failed to
see. I’ll call them… “Points you’re blind to”, or, PYBT.
QUOTE: “Why must people be so selfish because they wanted
the best of both worlds by being my friend and the friend of my
enemy?”
PYBT #1: You label your friends ‘selfish’ based
on the presumptuous premise that they “want the best of both
worlds”. By phrasing it in such a manner, you
make it seem as if they never had any choice (to be friends with
your enemy) in the first place, which, by the way, is what you
really believe in, which of course, is the reason why you've been
called selfish/control freak.
Refer to the following:
QUOTE: “It's not selfish at all, since they are my friends
then I expect them to stand by me as I am expected to stand by them
in times of need.”
At first glance, it’s even something I personally believe in.
However, extremists like yourself enjoy… liberal misinterpretation.
You took it a step further to mean that because they are your
friends, they are expected to ditch that enemy of yours because it
is an act of support, or, as you’ve put it, “standing by you”.
QUOTE: “Then all my other friends will also slowly become
the friend of my enemy if my close friend went to invite my enemy
to go out with my other friends.”
PYBT #2: You don’t see it, but this sentence
screams of paranoia and insecurity, brought about by a lack of
faith in your friends. You talk about not treating this using a
robotics analogy. You're treating your friends like chess pieces,
as if the moment they become friends with your enemy, you've lost
them. Doh. Talk about irony desu... Deny it all you want, but to
the rational, discerning mind, it’s as clear as day for all and
sundry to see. Not that it’s a terrible thing though. I can
empathize with your paranoia and insecurity, because I am only
human. I’ve been through that before too, but it’s important that
one realises it and acts on it.
QUOTE: “Worse thing is when my friend doesn't want to help
me to clear up all the injustice that I have experienced from my
enemy and tell me it's been so long ago already and I should just
let it go. It's so easy to say kind words such as "let it go", but
how to let it go when I'm the victim...silently and quietly bearing
with all these nonsense from my enemy in the past.”
PYBT #3: Let me guess- were you bullied by your
enemy? Made use of? Been subjected to evil deeds? It must’ve been
really tragic, hmm? There, there. *pats* However, whatever that has
happened between you and your enemy is between you and your enemy.
It is unfair to bring other people into the equation and expect
them to follow what you tell them to do. Maybe you have your
friends’ best interest at heart so that they don’t get played by
your enemy like you were, or, maybe you’re just selfishly holding
on to this vendetta against your enemy and don’t want your precious
friends that you would do anything for to be (possibly) brainwashed
by your enemy. After all, it would be horrific if your hao peng you
all switched sides, no? Which is why I reiterate again- let them go
if you don’t have faith in them not to betray you. Sides, you’re
such a neurotic nervous wreck yourself, it’s better to save
yourself the heart pain caused by your wild imaginations rather
than face up to reality and handle the problem like a matured
person, yes?
QUOTE: I'm very nice to all my friends, would do anything
for them...almost anything. But I'm feeling so sad and depressed
that my friend would rather allow me to feel worse than helping to
find out why my enemy did all those things to me and why my enemy
said all those things about me in the past.
PYBT #4: There, crying bloody murder again. If
they really are such selfish, uncaring friends like you’ve made
them out to be, then stop whining and go get rid of them already. I
mean, they *obviously* don’t care about your feelings. Like,
totally.
QUOTE: Rejection from a friend disappoints, but a rejection
from a close friend killed my heart and it's very painful and sad
everytime I realised what a fool I have been to treat her like my
close friend. What if she go and tell my enemy or anyone about my
secrets? I think I will go kill myself if I'm being blackmailed by
her in the future. I cannot defriend her and I cannot bring myself
to befriend her anymore and I'm really feeling very trapped.....so
very trapped right now and I really don't know what to do.
Before anything has happened, you’ve already resigned yourself
to the notion that you’ve been rejected by your friend, worrying
about all the secrets and blackmail and all. It’s kinda sad, but
funny at the same time. Sorry, can’t help it. Morbid sense of
humour. ^^
PYBT #5: Your friend didn’t trap you. YOU
trapped yourself in this web of entangling emotions, unwarranted
accusations, paranoia, insecurity and wrath. You spun the web
around yourself, and you made yourself feel more horrible than you
actually should be.
I’d actually tell you how you can feel better, but since you’re
going to continue being deaf to my words and the reality of the
situation (oh btw, I don’t make hasty presumptions. I conclude
based on the evidence I have and I always explain my thoughts,
which, of course, you don’t actually pay attention to), AND because
you’re such a prissy little kid who resorts to personal insults to
have leverage against people who tell her what she doesn't want to
accept, I’ll just wait until someone kinder comes along. Really
can't find it in me to be kind to someone that's not worth my
compassion.
What was that phrase again... oh.
'I'm not Jesus.'
LOL
Aiya...analyse so much for wat...she also dun read one...then
just flame you..
Be the better person walk off la 
