Don't bother combining them if you are the only one who know the
individual group ppl. You would be very exhausted at the end of the
day, and the outing would be a miserable one for you and your
friends.
You have to learn how to stop placing your friends in the
priority seat, they are not going to be there forever and beside
you. So even if they say discouraging things like stingy etc, just
brush it off one side. Ultimately, its about you and what you want
in your lifestyle. If you carry on like that, you will be very
fatigue, and one day you will start to ignore their calls and
sms-es and come up with crap excuses. I was once in your
position.
So I thank god that I have only 1 friend now. LOL.
that is really harsh and mean thing to do. Ignoring smses and calls
is hard to avoid for me. Is there any other suggestion to tell them
indirectly?