How to get back my ex ?

maxtor SG

U may not like what i have to say, but ..

A good horse doesnt eat backward grass.

Change to this mentality and u will see your life change.

Good luck bro :)

theme_and_guess SG

i dunno...

maybe a porche or BMW...

i thot vespa...

sad that ts broke up with a girl that can drive

parn SG

We had been together for 6 years and to a point we going to plan our married but now everything is out of the picture. She told me that she has totally no feeling for me and cant see the future between us. I did something bastard back then where i meet a girl and kiss her on the dance floor and this was 3 years back, when she forgive me and returned to me I know I wont be seeing another forever again in my life and i did trully love her whole heartedlly for the next 3 years. When we come to quarrel I alws think that is it a form of communication between two of us as we will know each other better after we make up but i was wrong this will only make her insecure toward me. I'm such a loser and immature guy to shout at her whenever we quarrelled and i really learn my mistake.

My heart is going up n down now as i know she wont be coming back to me so i pray every single day that she will be happy and find someone who treat her with all the love she deserve from me, to meet someone who see her alws as i do now jus like Jesus do. In another hand, i might not be a rich or best guy in the world but i have the confidence that if i'm able to hold her hands again I will hold it till we apart and even if she turned into old lady without any tooths I will still do my very best to make her smile and no matter what she still the prettiest girl in my heart. I want to give her happiness with my very own hands.

We finally chat on phone for an hours recently she said that she can feel the sincere, care and concern for her but she doesnt need it from me anymore. Everyone asks me to move on without her but my life wont be complete, My heart ask me to wait as if one day she come back, our love will be more beautiful and strong.

She told me that she has changed and she's not the girl i like anymore and i just find out that 'hey, I fall in love with her again not becos of the past but the current her now' so this give me another reason to chase her but i scare backfire

She was honest enough to tell you that she had changed....a change of heart towards your old self. I'm sure you also have realised the significant change in her too.

But I believed her when she told you she thinks there is no future between you and her, so why don't you share with us about your past and present career? Any moment in time when you were jobless and for how long? Did you depended on her financially before or borrowed money from her? Were you in any financial or career crisis in the past when you were together with her and your present situation?

Share with us the real reason why she left you, be it for a change in financial situation or career crisis.

It's true we cannot make her come back to you, but we can let you face and accept the real reason behind your separation. It's up to you to change into someone she have been hoping to be together with...before she really meet that someone who pretended to be the guy she have been hoping to be together with. Don't forget that there are many immoral and lying guys out there who will not hesitate to become her "dream" guy just to get INSIDE her!

I don't want to give you false hopes, but she doesn't like or want to be together with your old self. If you realised what was the real issue behind it, and confront it with yourself, maybe there is still some hope if you are willing to change for her sake.

Because nothing comes easy and the second time will be more difficult to achieve if you really need her in your life. So you need to reconsider this point, IS SHE WORTH YOUR TROUBLE?

IS THERE NO ONE ELSE BETTER THAN HER?

Durian_bananas SG

Mr Tiankong,

Just because she spoke for you for an hour doesn't mean she wants you back. She probably do it out of respect because she been with you for 6 years. Of course there is that feeling, but it is not the same anymore. Go seek other women. It is so obvious that she is not going to come back. This will take time but you will recover - look back and tell yourself how stupid it was. You have 6 years of experience in handling the opposite sex, use this as an opportunity to find other partner. But this time, please be a bit more loyal and don't cheat on her again. Women do not like men to cheat on them. It is very bad - even if they forgive, they will remember. What am I saying? It is even more difficult to have them forgive you unless you got $billions like some golfer or football player.

Darkseed73 SG

Sometimes feelings is not there u cannot force is.

She knows u, u know her and when woman doesn’t see a future with the him she is with there is nothing u can do unless u can change yourself and your habits? Are u willing to do that?

In some cases woman will lose respect of their man if that happens.

So it’s a lose lose situation….i suggest u move on ~ at least u may keep her as a friend.

shadez SG

Hey tlankong,

I personally just ended a relationship with my gf of 3 years. It was painful experience for sure. I know you have feelings for her & envision both of you together in the future. But you need to realize that through all your conversations with her, that she does not view you in the same way.

A relationship is something that can only exist & flourish when 2 individuals commit to it & work towards the same goal. She is NOT the one for you. She is NOT your destiny. You WILL meet a girl one day that makes you feel like you are complete, yearning for your ex is just your mind not moving on.

I know how you feel & my thoughts goes out for you. I wish you the best of success in moving out of this circle of regret & achieving your true happiness in life.

bo liao SG

Sometime is good to let go now, & you will give yourself a pat on shoulder IF this type of issue happen when you are married & wid child.

Yes, 6 years is hard to let go. My ex of 5 years, i also went siao overnight...haha

If really cannot get her back, go for other females, i know there will be no 1 that can replace her but change a new may have a better future, maybe the new person is the right one for you.

As per your topic> I will give some time,show her you dun have her will not die. Then go to places she go, chat up & slowely win her heart back, showing her the new you. It will take time tho..Most of the time, if you hv new social circle, you will get another new partner.

Good Luck.

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