Confirm not about $$$. I'm earning enough to afford a Car and a
house and a family. She did mentioned her BF dont have much $$$
otherwise she wouldn't have to work in SG.
Its because her BF was lucky to spend lots of time with her in
KL while she has no friends there with only him to rely on.
having fun together does not
mean anything
Having fun means she's more open to me. Which is very important
step for communication.
When you ask her about her bf, and she said "ok lor", that means
that this is just a relationship of convenience, and not one built
on actual foundation. The first thing she did was to say her bf was
fat actually shows quite a lot.
Think you should ask her out and continue with it until both of
you become really comfortable with each other. But take your time.
The time will come when there is the need to express those
feelings. Let it happen naturally.
One question you need to ask yourself is, are you very sure you
are the one who can make her happy for the rest of your life (since
you are of marriageable age). If so, then by all means go ahead in
your pursuit. In fact, I think she having a "ok lor" bf is also
good, as it would keep potential suitors, who are stupid enough not
to pursue a gal that they like just becoz she has a bf, out of the
door.
And it doesn't really matter (like Fcukpap mentioned) that she
views security as one of her criteria for the one she wants to be
with for the rest of her life. Marriage cannot only depend on love,
bread has to be part of the consideration, to be truly
practical