Hseng,
Very interesting topic. I am a Malaysian and I tell you
Malaysian Chinese women are a handful. I don't know much but I do
know one thing, what they like is a game or a wild goose chase. Be
very careful of that.
There are two case: Case 1 - The girl likes you but doesn't like
you enuf to accept you, so she leads you on and tricks you to like
her even more. In the end, she got it all figured out, how to
reject you while making you feel you still have a chance. This
makes her feel so much better knowing that her market value is
beefed up and boost her own self esteem.
Case 2: She doesn't like you at all, so she brings her best
friend to go after you and cover her arse. Her best friend will
continue to have total fatal attraction for you while you continue
to struggle to escape her powerful radar. While you are distracted
by her hideous friend, she goes out on her own to strengthen her
rship with her current bf.
Dude, you are Case 1 - it is not so bad for you. You can still
bring yourself together. The best thing to find a proper
relationship is to be friends with the gal not to chase her like
Olympic Gold Medal. Answer is do you want to find a life partner or
a trophy case?