I need some advice and suggestion.
I am confused.
I knew a man from internet 3 months ago. We decided to meet
up. Few days later, he said he misses me, loves me and
wants me to be his girlfriend. Each time we meet, he will bring me
to a park, we then kiss and engage in heavy petting.
From the first day we met until now, he has never ceased to
sending sms to me every day. However, the smses he sent to me were
either what are you doing? do you want to meet? I feel so sad
receiving this kind of messages... He never ask about my
condition/situation whatsoever. A simple message showing care such
as "how are you?" is a "hopeless" to hear from him.
I feel ambivalent whether he really likes me or i am just his
tool. Sometimes he will asks me to hotel, though, i never
agree.
By the way, he treats me pretty nice.
What should i do? Should i trust him? Should i avoid him?
...
do u wind up in physical contact every single time he asks to
meet?
if yes, then stop being physically intimate. by either ceasing
contact with him, or being more pro active in planning other
activities for dates.
apart from snogging at the park, have u guys had dinner? played
sports? window shopped? seen a show?
there's no harm in testing him first before making up ur mind
(if u're still unsure). the best person to answer ur questions is
u.
but please don't be coerced into being intimate with him or put
urself in a vulnerable position.
