Criticism

snowieyun SG · 2010-01-06T00:15:56+00:00

yes i will reflect on that and be strong... i have already gotten the answer but just hard to get rid of them for now cos sometimes they keep popping message...

snowieyun SG

i never stick with this friend anymore. just dat i cant get over the insult yet.

kilfer SG

i never stick with this friend anymore. just dat i cant get over the insult yet.

u can either

1) forget the insult

2) keep it and return it back to her some day

whichever makes you happy.

Fugazzi SG

Well, all that u did for your friend came with expectations - and that is where u erred lar.

Pix this - if u had not expected anything but did it out of love or whatever u feel it to be so - u would not face this predicament. Unless the word 'friend/friendship' is just a means to an end. Ur end? her end?

I cannot tell u what to be - just know this lar - what u accumulate will eventually surface later - it would be wise to be grateful and unlearn or one can hold grudges and store grievances and live - whichever the situation - what is in u will surface.

Understanding and acceptance mite have u feeling 'better' or 'worse' cos it u!

Hello Kitty SG

sollie to say dis.

bt u're a weaklin.

mancha SG

it still hurts me whenever i recalls about how she call me a failure. i dont want to forgive her but what else can i do? people is happy and laughing but you make yourself so miserable and upset about it.

i know i am weak but i am sure i can overcome it one day and become a better person.

You don't overcome it "one day". You learn as you go along, as you grow and learn.

You must learn from your past, and from what just happened. Things may not happen right, but let it happen only once. Its ok to be tricked once, or be outsmarted, or bungle, but learn from it and avoid a repetition. That you must do.

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