Greetings everyone,
I have been smsing a female friend for 1 year 7 months now.
After she went for a camp and came back, she didn't sms me anymore
except for 1 "Sorry, I'm tired." kind of message. I've been waiting
for 3 days now and sending an average of 5 smses and 2 or 3 calls a
day. Even on MSN or Facebook, I see her online, but no response
from her at all. So, a few questions:
1. I just cried about 2 hours ago because of her not replying
me. Did I unknowingly fall for her?
2. Does she think I'm irritating by smsing and calling her so
many times?
3. There's a couple of new guy names on her blog. She broke up
with her bf about a month ago. Is she like, with one of
them now?
I'm considering sending her a message something like "I'm sorry
if I done anything wrong and thank you for this past 1 year and 7
months". It'll hurt me like [insert choice of vulgar word here] but
I'm sure time will heal. Problem is, it took me 2.5 years to get
over my previous crush. I can't afford this time anymore. Hence my
username. Should I just wait or should I just walk away?
I'm 17, male, not very high self-esteem if it helps. Thanks.
Hi Confused,
Indeed, it is a possibility that she finds you annoying, but if
you do not ask her personally, you will never know the truth. I
believe that you have fallen for her albeit unknowingly, thus the
first thing you should do now is to sit down and ask yourself what
are your exact feelings for her.
If you think that she is just a close friend to you, then
perhaps you will like to meet up with her to clear any
misunderstandings, especially that pertaining to the fact that you
are not a stalker.
If you think that you have truly fallen for her, then the next
thing you should do is to weight your options. You must take into
consideration various factors, such as whether you are in NS or
still studying, the background of the girl ...etc.
Cheers.