hey guys. thanks alot for helping, u guys are more helpful than
my friends. and u know what, u guys are right all along. I
mean im his girlfriend for god sake. I'm suppose to have this power
over him. Yeah if i continue to be timid, i'll be forever timid.
really thanks alot u guys and thanks to my ex too :) he helped me
when i went to seek his help.
and soleachip, yup i think im going to take your words for the
break up tips. But except for the shouting problem. Because he
often yells at me and im too scared to even move. But its ok right?
i mean its just yelling, like parn said, things wont go to such
extend right? yes?
Yes i definitely want to try this. But not now, i do it on
friday because on that day, i meeting up he and his friends at ktv.
Before we go in, i plan to talk to him about the break up. Yes i
really want to do this although of course i feel uneasy and little
bit terrified but its ok. I let u all know after i done so. Besides
my ex wants me to be with him again so i have to do this break up
thing fast haha.
Ya just hav ta be a drama mama doncha ?
Breaking up is breaking up.. it just means you NO LONGER see
that guy.
Now that your ex wants you back.. ya gotta make it a CLEAN
break... else you'd end up ALONE again.
No matter how you planned the breakup.. before KTV/Before a
meal/after a movie.. etc.. what ya do will still sting and rub his
big ego the wrong way.
He will not accept the break up notification easier, nor will it
make the breakup less abrasive. What is important is making sure
YOU don't get hurt.
The easiest way is still the simplest way.