Relationships are very shallow

last SG · 2009-09-06T18:47:10+00:00

i build deep relationships with chewren using lolipops

automator SG

It seems that nowadays relationship are all very shallow.

The boss treats you well when he knows you are useful. Once you become useless, he can't wait to kick you out of the company.

Your wife/gf treats you well you have a good job and you are giving her lots of money to enjoy life. Once you are broke she can't wait to get rid of you and find a new guy.

Even parents are also like that. When you are having a good job and giving them money every month, they treats you well. Once you are jobless and have no money to give them they everyday come and kao pei at you and threaten to sue you in court.

Seems nowadays relationships are built on very shallow basics

Fugazzi SG

It is more of beggarly love lar, everyone is begging to be fullilled. In what ways one is does not matter.

One who has arrived - does not beg, one shares, one appreciates.

Hideinshadows SG

relationships work only when there are mutual benefits. benefits like money..

who needs emotional comfort from a begger?

automator SG

relationships work only when there are mutual benefits. benefits like money..

who needs emotional comfort from a begger?

So according to this statement, you no longer need your parents when you grow up. So you shouldn't support them right since you get no benefits from them in return?

BadzMaro SG

Then dun get into any relationship.

Be a successful self-centered SOB. =D

angel3070 SG

Could be due to living in a capitalistic economic system and pay and pay ideology of ruling party.

Hideinshadows SG

So according to this statement, you no longer need your parents when you grow up. So you shouldn't support them right since you get no benefits from them in return?

no money to give them they everyday come and kao pei at you and threaten to sue you in court.

automator SG

Then dun get into any relationship.

Be a successful self-centered SOB. =D

can get into 1 night stand relationship with no strings attached

Fugazzi SG

Relationship(s) are shallow cos there was no foundation from the start lar. All that was happening (or seems to be happening) - propping up with money, house, car, sadly even the gal/boy/spouse aslo reduced into things!

Take them or lose them - one collapses!

However, if one (or the parties) understands that these are props and there is a willingness (or by one's volition), to INvest within oneself - then i would say, there is a chance lar, this relationship(s) can weather any storm and still stand. I say this cos there is depth of being. Propped up .... no depth lar.

PS - i m not saying it is rite/wrong - i m implying that understanding may help

Shao Wei SG

build relationship with love not $$

automator SG

build relationship with love not $$

Like christians like that lor.

Peach until so noble but in actual fact just want you to donate your money to the church so that the pastor can use the money to buy cars and big houses to stay in

CannyOng SG

It seems that nowadays relationship are all very shallow.

The boss treats you well when he knows you are useful. Once you become useless, he can't wait to kick you out of the company.

Your wife/gf treats you well you have a good job and you are giving her lots of money to enjoy life. Once you are broke she can't wait to get rid of you and find a new guy.

Seems nowadays relationships are built on very shallow basics

I know what u lack..

Self confidence.

Shao Wei SG

Like christians like that lor.

Peach until so noble but in actual fact just want you to donate your money to the church so that the pastor can use the money to buy cars and big houses to stay in

better then u whining all day long?

caleb_chiang SG

oh... you mean you too?

Fantagf SG

better then u whining all day long?

what sort of reply is this?

airgrinder SG

wollahs yrev era spihsnoitaler.

jojobeach SG

So according to this statement, you no longer need your parents when you grow up. So you shouldn't support them right since you get no benefits from them in return?

What do you think CPF is for ?

Itedino SG

It seems that nowadays relationship are all very shallow.

The boss treats you well when he knows you are useful. Once you become useless, he can't wait to kick you out of the company.

Your wife/gf treats you well you have a good job and you are giving her lots of money to enjoy life. Once you are broke she can't wait to get rid of you and find a new guy.

Seems nowadays relationships are built on very shallow basics

It a basic cycle in life. It part and parcel. One day, we will all face it unless you not human.

automator SG

what sort of reply is this?

It is a dumb reply by a christian who feels embrassed that their scam of cheating people's money has been exposed

dangerboi SG

This is the same in every country. Face it and stop whining.

This is reality. Life is a game...don't hate the players, hate the game