Thank u all for all your inputs in the previous threat.
Just to update, we went out today n she be starting work at my
place part time from tomorrow onwards.
I accept that there is likely to be no future together with her.
But is there a humane n less painful way for me to cut her off?
I don’t want n cannot possibly ask her to leave, just after
joining. Even if she leave my co, we will still have to see each
other like 2-3 times a week, as she is likely to be my student for
the next 1 year. I teach finance part time.
Shall I just tell her my feeling once n for all n highlight that
we got no future together n see what she say?
I also know that there r some other guys chasing her as I saw
them passing gifts to her, in class.
A humane and less painful way ? Oh.. you are too funny
Billie.
Trust me, while you want to accord so much kindness to that
girl, she has no intention of giving it back to you.
Does she cares that you have 2 young children who will grow up
hating their father ?
Does she cares that your wife , after devoting so many years of
her life to you, will be heart broken and left without a husband
when the affair comes to light ?
Does she cares that your family, including the extended ones
will curse you as the family tee koh pek who can't keep his penis
in his pants ?
Does she cares that you may lose your teaching job or your
reputation will be ruined when your school finds out ? You will
have to take the fall, she will play the young naive victim. You
can say bye bye to the teaching circuit.
Does she cares ?
Nope. Because to her, you are just a stepping
stone. Your failure in life is not her problem.
And look what she has gained from you already. A job, special
treatment in class, free meals, free entertainments. What's there
to say No about ?
So what if there be no future with you ? She has a lot to gain
NOW.
Ask yourself, what have you done for your wife lately ? Why
arn't you bringing your wife to the movies ?
Why arn't you wining and dining your wife of many years?
Instead, you are wining and dining that girl who has done
nothing for you, except giving you hard ons.
Your wife is also a woman, she needs loving from you too. She
may be married to you, but I bet her married life must be lonely as
hell.
Go save your wife from the depth of loneliness you have cast her
into, for you are the only man who can help her,
because you are her husband.
You need to fix your marriage. If not, it's either this 21 yer
old, or another 25 year old or some other girl you want to save
(for the sake of your self-esteem).
Ya don't know how to keep your professional life separate from
your personal ??Go see a psychologist. They can help you.