I hate my classmates!

last SG · 2009-08-07T17:23:52+00:00

thanks guys, I am now much happier in my class.

Jiani SG

well this is how my classmates are. Everyday, when I did something wrong or I make a mistake, the only thing they know is to laugh at me and call me names! They call me something like ghost, spirt etc. Nobody wants to seat with me during dissmal. I tried to be nice to them, but one of them says I like him because he bully me yet I treat him so well! what should i do to get them to respect me, at least?

Hanagata SG

how old are you?

FireIce SG

tts good
they dun deserve to be ur frens anyway

bananaCoke SG

being nice to people who treat you badly is stupid. you keep on submissive submissive you will not be able to become assertive when you grow up. you should earn your respect the other way.

you should learn to tell them how u feel, explain why do u think they are wrong and what can be made better.

Jiani SG

so... how am I going to let them respect me? what I is respect, that's all

Aang SG

those classmates of yours are not worth ur effort

theme_and_guess SG

painful times huh!! the way that this is heading, i think it's useless to change things. This is like a "one mindset"... They are still childish n immature of where they are now, no doubt. Sorry but u just have to endure it till u graduate. By the looks of this, i bet u're either in primary or secondary skool right?? mostly primary since those childish thoughts are going on there

Uraniumfish SG

Welcome to the club, TS.

Jiani SG

yup, i am in primary school.i am primary 5 today. it is most likely I will have the same classmates in Primary 6

Jiani SG

yup, i am in primary school.i am primary 5 today. it is most likely I will have the same classmates in Primary 6

theme_and_guess SG

no wonder!! i knew it ur in a primary age!! no choice la.... those child like minds nvr think.... so dont bother try to put in yr effort. u just have to embrace it till u reach secondary

bananaCoke SG

get help from a teacher you believe you can trust. so he/she can be there to guide you.

a teacher can get access to you frequently and it is always better to talk about problems face to face.

don't escape the problem and do not give up! initiate the first step and bon-voyage~

bananaCoke SG

tts good
they dun deserve to be ur frens anyway

those classmates of yours are not worth ur effort

you 2 ar.. this boy is mature to solve the problem with his own solution by being nicer to his classmates. perhaps his approach is not the best solution but atleast he is trying. he seems to be a nice kid that wants to earn respect positively. we should encourage him to seek help from his teachers.

caleb_chiang SG

Hey... we all hate each other for something that we are not...

But then, if you can't get along with them... just leave them lor... Why? you scared to be a loner?

For me is like i dun care to entertain them but they came to me like an magnet...

So, often for the first few days of my employment or school, I'm always a loner till people come and stick to me...

Jiani SG

ermm..... I am a girl. Not a boy.

bananaCoke SG

lol sets up animal traps for pedobear

gunner77 SG

awww, so poor thing

let kor kor give u an advise. Just tell them how u feel. Anyway they are all boys, so they are childish. U dont mix with girls?

bryanw SG

u kor kor meh? i thought u didi.

Jiani SG

I am a girl!!

gunner77 SG

u kor kor meh? i thought u didi.

To her im kor kor ok