I hate my classmates!

last SG · 2009-08-07T17:23:52+00:00

thanks guys, I am now much happier in my class.

dinky1409 SG

dont hang onto something that is not worth hanging onto..

ItchyArmpit SG

aiyo.. sad la.. pri sch i wonder if everyone is lidat.. but i am sure mine was worse.. so having the mindset that someone is worse than u would be good..

just endure till sec sch.. sec sch life is much better...

PedoBear SG

hi ts

you should make friends with ghost 18

---Max--- SG

I was like you when I am in primary school, consider me as a good person who is talented in various way but pratically bullied in school everyday. So at the time I was thinking although I was the highest in maths and sci in the whole level but I have no friends then I got 1 damn foolish thought if I do badly and I will have a lot of friends like the others.

Yah got real poor grade then teacher was shocked, called my parents. Kena tuition daily but still no friends instead I was discrinimated that I am useless by my classmate without good grade.

Felt damn sad at that time.

totally regretted that decision I made in primary school, if not for that I will not had ended up in a neighbourhood stupid school. LOL

But now I got a better path from my parents and this time I will cherish it.

Path is totally decided by you, chances given by someone will fall upon you one day cherish it and excel in it. Be someone useful in future, the suffer you had is only temporary, somedays you will find a way to get out of that tangled rope and I believe you will.

I will advise you to find a way to your problems youself, if you suceed in it, u will gain more confident and higher self esteem. From my experience, try not to tell the teachers cause normally teacher will talk to the student and the student will of course be scolded but normally the student will tell his/ her classmate. Yes they will try to avoid you but if you were to ever make a slightest mistake, they will report to the teachers which I believed you do not want right?

mlmersrlosers SG

tell them to stop or else u will find some teenagers to beast them up

Uraniumfish SG

Yah got real poor grade then teacher was shocked, called my parents. Kena tuition daily but still no friends instead I was discrinimated that I am useless by my classmate without good grade.

Felt damn sad at that time.

totally regretted that decision I made in primary school, if not for that I will not had ended up in a neighbourhood stupid school. LOL

But now I got a better path from my parents and this time I will cherish it.

lol at you

Fugazzi SG

My suggestion - love,respect and accept all that u are (warts and all) and be u; whether others accept u or not becomes irrelevant.

BlackSkull SG

tell them to stop or else u will find some teenagers to beast them up

Apparently, she is much mature than you.

Fighting will stop the problem Arhs? Seems more to me that they will detest her more.

And she wants to befriend them, not to become enemies.

And to TS,

You should stop "hating them", in the first place, as you mentioned in the title. Find out what's the problem? You too pretty? You too smart (they jealous?)? Or is it you have bad habits that they dislike?

Going hard againest them by waging cold war is indefinately not going to solve the problem. Try talking to them Luhs, one by one, don't approach when they're in groups - and find out what is wrong. I'm pretty confident to say theres at least one kind soul within your classmates.

The reason not to approach them when in groups is because they're more likely to be aggressive, because when in groups, humans tend not to be afraid and will try to be intimidating. Also, another factor is that some might fear not be able to "fit in", or to be their friends again, so they would bully you just like others.

Jiani SG

thanks.

Serpent33 SG

part of shit in life I guess. On a bad note, that's only a fart considering the rest of life you have to face. I wonder what's the suicide rate for teenagers in Singapore. Damn if you are posting your problems here and not confiding in your parents, YOU HAVE BIGGER PROBLEMS than you imagine. You need to speak to an adult whom you think is closest to you.

Over here you may get temporay remedies.

Jiani SG

serpent33, so you think that i will kill myself? i am not that stupid to do that.

theme_and_guess SG

just endure it la.... its those childish years that most of us have to go thru even me!! just dont make any stupid repeated mistake when u graduate

Jiani SG

thanks.

Nikar7 SG

1) don't suck up or be nice to them. it'll make you look wimpy and people love to abuse wimps

2) it may be hard or near impossible to let people change their opinion of you. If cannot, just wait till u get into new class and make new friends.

i've seen several cases of guys and girls in my sec school last time also kenna outcast by the majority, mainly due to their personality (nerdy, dorky, super-well-behaved) and their appearance (ugly hairstyle, ugly behavior etc.)

all these can be fixed.

and don't be desperate. that's a turn-off.

if all else fails, come to SGF. u've gods like Nikar here who can advise u well.

Redster SG

TS LOOK HERE I HAVE A GOOD WAY FOR YOU

when people insult you, you just give an expressionless face and say "orh ok"

it really works!

jesslyn1992 SG

aiya primary kids.

just tell the teachers then fine ald la.

Cool-gal SG

nowadays teachers bo chup one.. these kind of trivial matter, they dun reli care abt it..

jiani, respect is to be earn.. not u say want, ple will give u..

and sometimes, even u r worth tat respect, some stubborn kids wont give in..

so, just be urself. im sure someone will notice u.

anyway, those classmates of urs, can suck toes.. coz they dun deserve u..

be firm n confident if u can, dun be a target for others..

i reli detest bullies..

dun think too much abt it ok..

airgrinder SG

nowadays teachers bo chup one.. these kind of trivial matter, they dun reli care abt it..

jiani, respect is to be earn.. not u say want, ple will give u..

and sometimes, even u r worth tat respect, some stubborn kids wont give in..

so, just be urself. im sure someone will notice u.

anyway, those classmates of urs, can suck toes.. coz they dun deserve u..

be firm n confident if u can, dun be a target for others..

i reli detest bullies..

dun think too much abt it ok..

Cos the teachers' hands are tied nowadays compared to 5-10 years ago. Some schools are like turning to cusotmer service agencies where students and parents are the customers. I guess can blame the teachers too.

I must say this is all part of growing up. It's through all these unpleasant incidents that character can be forged. =)

Jiani SG

then what should I do when they kick my desk or my chair and they throw paper balls at me?

Jiani SG

then what should I do when they kick my desk or my chair and they throw paper balls at me?

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