Two wolves (being, INNER landscape) reside in
each of us, the first is needs, fears, beliefs (eg, customs,
traditons, religion), jealousy,comparing sympathy,possesivness,
insecurity, fear of loss , anger, prejudice, always reacts
... the second is love, kindness, emphaty , gratitude,unlimiting
beliefs always responds.
The one that is fed daily evolves - whom are u feeding, even as
u are reading it now?
Both is love - but with a BIG difference:
the first is ego- based personality! - it
eventually suffocates and kills the... (one remains
accidental/ on the periphery) - the bird is always trying to take
off but wings are always clipped - cos
love has become bondage here - the giving here is to
take back (lots of expectations) - what is one sharing is this
: complaining, whining, .... Here it is fear-based love and the
anxiety is there to quickly make it a relationship. One is
insecure.
the second is soul-infused individuality! - it
is everflowing abundance (essential/centre), it is a bird on a wing
- one wing is love, and the other is freedom - love is freeing -
the giving here is simply sharing what one is, appreciating what
IS. Here it is love unto itself and one simply relates, one flows
like the river and partakes of what the other is.One is abundantly
rich within - hence one relates without fear and one has
no reason(s) to love.
The predicament of many is that they search and desire answers
on all four quarters ooutside of themselves when the answers
are and have been all
along within; what is missing is the essential,
the accidental - aplenty!
The above is expansive - not confined to
relationships or marriage but other areas of one's daily ... and
what have you.
This is my experience observation and understanding, that's
all
Superimposed on a circle - one can only understand and
transcend, one cannot improve on a circle!
The first ripple .... watch and ....
This transcends psychology!
Lest its miscontrued, i m not against marriage or ... its the
LACK WITHIN that i opine