One word of suggestion for you - SCHEME.
I too was a kid once, and know what's it like if you are left
out, not because you are no good, but because some idiotic prideful
petty son of a bitch took a dislike to you. Guess what? It
WILL happen at every stage in your life too - school, NS, work, old
age home, etc.
Sad to say that you have to grow up fast now, made more with
what I have to teach you. It will make you lose your innocence and
naivety, but the truth is that you have to understand group
dynamics, how it works and operates, and how to MANIPULATE it to
your advantage so that you can get ahead in life.
There is a right bright side and the dark side to scheming. If
you can control it, and have no intentions to hurt or harm anyone,
it would benefit many. But should you lean towards the dark side -
to cheat, to lie, to harm - you will be hated, for sometimes, if
you are not careful, scheming can be discovered and run out of
control, causing only more misery.
So do be careful in your application of manipulation of
others.
'know your enemy and know yourself - a thousand battles fought,
a thousand won.' The popular guys must be jealous of your knowledge
and feel you as a threat. Therefore, you must never bang your head
against the wall - go against them. Rather, go around them.
If you are as smart as you think yourself are, you will be able
to run rings around them. Example- they spread half truth against
you - counter them by building allies with others. Learn to make
others trust you and know you are reliable - by being responsible,
helpful and more caring. Build up your base - close friends of both
guys and girls.
There is no need to treat the popular guys with contempt, nor
have a servitude attitude to them. You are a Singaporean and an
equal to anyone else, no need to bow or kneel. Always keep cool and
have a smile on your face. Listen with attention to what they say,
if right, do what they say, if wrong, just smile, dont argue, but
once their backs on turn, do what you think is right and prove
these petty clowns wrong.
There is much more to learn, but too much that I
cannot teach you here. It takes experience, but as you are
still young, the opportunities are boundless on what you can do,
watching reactions, learning, correcting your mistakes and adapting
to your environment like a chameleon.
Just dont be seduced by the darkside once you gain success. It
will only bring you more misery.
May the Force be with you.
