I feel so sad, feel like crying, feel so messed up with life

dinky1409 SG

u alive for only 15 years and u tink ur problem so big meh until want to end life meh? my advice is dont emo, just study well, be gd boy, den go work den emo..

Fugazzi SG

Juggling semantics does not efface what one is behind the persona

zichuan SG

go a corner to masturbate, u will feel better after u wake up from orgasms. trust me.

domonkassyu SG

I feel so sad, feel like crying, feel so messed up with my life.?
I still remembered that in the past around 3 months ago, I enjoyed fame, happiness, acknowledgment of my professional IT skill by my classmate. But after falling with 2 main guy who enjoy a high amount of friends, fame, reputation, my world seems to turn upside down, the whole class starts to avoid me, even for a group project, I find it extremely hard to get a group in class, the group which I used to be in 'kick' me out of it.

I soon come to realize that without any friends, no matter how talented I am, I am still a loner. This make it even worse when some my classmate started to make fun of me when I make a post on facebook, I felt so hurt that I couldn't describe it. I dread going to school everyday.

Worse still, tomorrow is the presentation where my ex-group will be presenting. All the presentation was done by me, one and only person. I wonder, should I claim all the credits in the last slides that the presentation was done by me? If I do that, chances are I will get high score while the other groups members will get a much lower score or even fail.

I know right from the start, my ex-group members was making use of me but at that point of time, I didn't really bother cause to me, I don't mind going extra further for happiness and satisfaction.

I am honestly lost for what to do. I am very depressed, lost, hurt. I have to say, I do have the urge to end my life cause I find it meaningless, totally no happiness.

Please advice on what should I really do.

Thank you

(15 years old student)

if you did everything..and they have to depend on you and they kick you out..all i can see is you will tread on a lonely road to success while they tread on a path to failure together..choose yourself lor..

winners are lonely people who have to tread on other people to climb up..no matter how well rapport building and how charismatic you are..you are still alone..

dojon SG

wah piang eh.. know how to use MS Office means having professional IT Skills sia... Sorry but you were trying to impress people with that kind of skills ?...

Anyway, it is not wise to claim the credits afterall you did all those at your own will initially and you would be of no difference of being a "backstabber".

You will go through all these things during secondary school mate, it's those things in life which you will laugh at when you look back in the future. =)

Iplayneopetssince11 SG

hey EMC2222, please dont feel that you have messed by your life. must always remember that there will be ups and downs in life. for your case, i believe that you have some minor problems with friendship handling. try to understand your friends more and talk to them if required. i know this is easier to be said than to be done, but if dont give it a try, you will never how useful it will turn out to be. but of course, you must be tactfull in handling this problem if not your friends will think that you are a weirdo once again.

on the issue that you feel that your friends are making use of you in group work or projects, i guess that you may want to come into an agreement on every team member's contribution during group work. but during most of the group projects, it will be inevitable for one momber to do more than the rest. this person will definitely gain more in terms of subject knowledge, project skills such as the crucial research skills (knowing how to and where to find resources during a project isnt an easy task, it requires experience and exposure) and maybe will improve your language etc etc. all these will prove to be very useful in your future studies (jc and universities) or even stretch to your future career.

i trust that you will be do better next time. cheers!

Fugazzi SG

When one sows the seeds of discord - he/she is being divisive; (If u can,) observe, understand and accept the foibles in u and others and hopefully, (if u can) don't become that - cos it is the most unethical and ugly thing one can be and do to get ahead in life. One gets back what one sends out!

(If) u can be a little foolish to enjoy life n be a little wise to avoid the 'mistakes', that will DO

TheMissus SG

aiyo you are still so young! I remember my sister being very upset and crying about having no friends in her class and having the only person she hangs out with for recess and all, in the next class. She even wanted to change class. LOL. But now it doesn't matter anymore. You will end up changing five to ten different batches of friends at least before you end up getting married. All those losers of the past won't matter at all!

min92 SG

Don't make your life so miserable. Cheer up (:

Sometimes being loner isnt a bad thing. You can still prove to others that you can still succeed alone. Maybe you can even build ur confidence.

Grit your teeth and endure. You will be fine after you graduate... (:

Fugazzi SG

Allow me this digression - Elton John's 'Sacrifice' resonates to the myriad predicament so many relationships (marriage included). Perhaps, being mature about it may go a long way.

Fugazzi SG

Oops, wrong posting

Kane.J SG

Hey, a good friend is better then a dozen of acquaintances. It doesn’t matter if your good friend/s are not from the same school or not. At the end of the day, they are still the ones who won’t leave you behind. And i think relationships with people in class or work is not good, but its just my opinion.

Medicated Oil SG

Cherish your good health and your family.

Just look at the people that have lost their family and home due to the heavy rain in Taiwan.

You are already very fortunate.

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