long distance releationship

jojobeach SG

i visiting her on 12 dec but i say i will be there at 13 dec.anyway she stays in indonesia.things are fine now.ok the irritation days are over.we have already plan what to do when i am visiting her.ya last month my bill was 200.kinda of ex for me but still affordable.i now using the starhub 128 with calling card one month mabe i spend about 40 dollar calling her.btw spade1 how does the skype calling works.whats the rate???

that one day early surprise is nothing short of a rude gesture.

Do you expect her to drop everything she is doing on 12 dec to receive your sudden arrival ? She may be your gf, but she also has a life other than waiting at home for you everyday. If my bf do this to me, I will be irritated as hell.

Don't ruin a good reunion with your thoughtlessness.

Indonesia is only 1 hour flight away. Why do you have to wait so many months to go visit her ? Are you a miser of some sort ?

Ajen SG

your gf lives at where?

spade1 SG

Skype is very cheap... you can buy any headset with a microphone piece and start chatting. You can call their phone directly, or even cheaper is to talk free just over IP, ie. without phone charges. Depending on the speed of the internet in her town, sometimes the connection is not so good, but you'll learn to adopt to the pace of conversation. However, the important question is can't she come over to join you or vice versa? Is it career, education or whatever is stopping both from being with each other? Do consider this... how long have you known each other? if it is already a long time, perhaps you'd consider marriage?

Fantagf SG

Long distance relationship hen tong ku de!!

jojobeach SG

Long distance relationship hen tong ku de!!

Indonesia not very far lah. So cannot classify as long distance relationship lor.

Your darling live where now ?

dangerboi SG

indonesia isn't far from Singapore, getting there by plane isn't expensive too.

I've been in a long distance relationship where my bills amount to at least $1000+ singapore dollars every month

Fantagf SG

Indonesia not very far lah. So cannot classify as long distance relationship lor.

Your darling live where now ?

I have dumped him into the rubbish bin. No where to be found. hahahhha!

Kuali Baba SG

Long distance relationship hen tong ku de!!

Not all the time though.

tofushop193 SG

that one day early surprise is nothing short of a rude gesture.

Don't ruin a good reunion with your thoughtlessness.

Indonesia is only 1 hour flight away. Why do you have to wait so many months to go visit her ? Are you a miser of some sort ?

i am studying i am not a miser.exams are coming.shes doing her fyp so if i go earlier most probably she wont have time for me too.

tofushop193 SG

indonesia isn't far from Singapore, getting there by plane isn't expensive too.

I've been in a long distance relationship where my bills amount to at least $1000+ singapore dollars every month

power 1000 plus sia...not i don wan to go.is i cant go now.

BadzMaro SG

indonesia isn't far from Singapore, getting there by plane isn't expensive too.

I've been in a long distance relationship where my bills amount to at least $1000+ singapore dollars every month

LDR is expensive in way.. especially if u not really working full time.. LOL

Eat away at ur funds faster then u find a gf at wherever u are. But cannot weight Money vs The Girl U Really Like .

Lucky i use telco card. But once a while have to call using cellphone.. n that will rake up a few hundred monthly.

Not to mention gifts la.. plans etc.

1 out of 10 ppl work.. so it means it CAN work.. just whether if u are the 1 out of 10. But too many temptations liaw.. plus i admit i am weak.. WEAK !!! *slaps himself * brrr....

Fantagf SG

Not all the time though.

Are you in one now?

Forbiddensinner SG

i am studying i am not a miser.exams are coming.shes doing her fyp so if i go earlier most probably she wont have time for me too.

Since your exams are coming, then the foremost thing you should do is to focus on your studies.

You should put your relationships problems aside first lest it affects your studies. But look on the bright side, if both you and your gf are focusing on your exams, the odds of either of you paying attention to that attractive opposite-gender is much lesser, and both of you can have a bigger peace of mind too.

Kuali Baba SG

Are you in one now?

I kept one going for two years, but it's back to a normal friendship now. Want a link to the relevant thread?

Arapahoe SG

i read n read i thought it was different time zone than i realized it was only indonesia.........please lah.......

Forbiddensinner SG

i read n read i thought it was different time zone than i realized it was only indonesia.........please lah.......

Well, going over to Indonesia still requires some spare time and $$...

Arapahoe SG

i am not trying to trivalizes the topics of long distance relationship.

As a singaporean work oversea yes i tell you it is hard on the relationship for both married and work in progress....couple.

i know of married couple drift apart or grew apart because of lack in sharing life together. Not all companies cater for spouse relocation also it is a hard choice because both spouse need to work in SG.....Not everyone that went overseas can affort their wife to quit their job.

The price of being a Singapore Rats we race and run till we drop and split.

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