i've a bf of like 10 mths.. and recently i've started
working.
and as usual, there'll be some flirting in the office.
it is just an innocent thing cause to me whatever i do in the
office, stays in the office. i would not bring it out to my private
life.
but recently, there is this guy that asked me whether he can
date me and all that. he has a gf too.
at first we would go out and chit chat.. but now its more than
that.
how do i stop this thing? cause i know it's not fair to my bf,
and his gf.
A lot depends on how far you have brought your relationship with
this "other guy".
If he decides to bring up the matter to your bf, odds are are
your bf will break up with you ( Though honestly speaking, you
deserve it for being unfaithful).
Flirting in the office is a common thing, but that does not mean
it is a right thing to do. You know it is a wrong thing, yet you
continue to do it, that speaks a lot about your character.
The best and easiest way is to quit your job. I highly doubt
that guy will let you off so easily if you just talk to him, though
you are to be blamed as well for flirting with him.
