what if one of my achievements is to have alot of friends?
That itself is an achievement! You will have a good career in
sales, espacially in the insurance procument field and MLM
industry, moving up the ladder and driving a BMW roadster while
still in your teens!
If you are into politics, you will have a huge network of
supporters and who knows, you may became our next PM or
President!
Achievement means the final successful result of a
purpose. And why would you spend your time cultivating that
huge number of friends unless you have a purpose, an aim in mind?
( friends as in people you know and should care about, and
not the useless digits displayed on your facebook account).
SO, for the life of me, I don't know why others will want you as
a friend if your intention is to make use of them.
Friendship is built on trust, honesty and integrity, and chances
are, if you value your friendship, you will NOT make use of
them to climb up in life.
So we are back to square one - study hard, gain knowledge, get a
job, perform well in it, well enough that it would earn others'
respect.
If you have the qualities of leadership, you will attract others
to become your friends, for leadership shares the qualities of
friendship, only with the additional trait of accepting and
taking responsibilities for others' lives and bettering them,
helping them to fish instead of just feeding them fish,
including your friends.
That is the true achievement and where happy memories derive
from.