Trust no one principle in life

last SG · 2009-05-21T12:11:24+00:00

i trust everyonelend me 10k SGD

Socialist SG

how manu of u actually believe in this in life? I think leaders and those with responsibility positions should adopt this rite?

what are yr opinions.

the Bear SG

then the person will have a bitter, lonely and pointless life...

Socialist SG

i dont think, even LKY seems to follow this policy but they are so successful in life.

BadzMaro SG

U still need to trust someone to climb to the top. Good luck going solo.

Socialist SG

Trust and recognition for hard work are not same. If u do hard work, u will climb the ladder, u dont have to trust anyone.

the Bear SG

Lau Lee's successful?

maybe for a while..

was Midas also successful in your book?

all the "powerful" people who did not trust anyone died lonely, pitifully, bitterly and were a waste...

and pretty aptly, who gives a shit about them anyway? because they trusted no one, no one does...

so they all live and die in their guilded cages of their own making

Socialist SG

Lau Lee's successful?

maybe for a while..

was Midas also successful in your book?

all the "powerful" people who did not trust anyone died lonely, pitifully, bitterly and were a waste...

and pretty aptly, who gives a shit about them anyway? because they trusted no one, no one does...

so they all live and die in their guilded cages of their own making

it depends on the person actually, Some people are more happier alone. I had a fren who couldnt get along with anyone because he is overly paranoid. But he is happy being alone.

LoudnessFZ SG

IMO, i think the principle is not wholely practicable. in some point of life u need to trust someone,u need help from someone. its impossible to not trust anyone nowadays unless u live at some island alone.

we just have to carefully pick people from time to time and assessed who can and who cant be trusted.

the ultimate principle for me is,to care about yourself more than others most of the time.but of course u dont turn on a blind eye when u see someone needs help.

it only applies when no one needs ur care and attention that u dont give them the care and attention they didnt ask for.this way,itll avoid malignant talks by others and troubles u may avoid and thats not necessary in life.

Silence is better than any words spoken by any man.

ok maybe ive spoken too much.

youyayu SG

so when u need to go for operation. don't trust the doctor. cut urself up.

skythewood SG

trust no one...

that is not the whole story, the story starts with responsibility. As a leader, you are responsible for everything. But you cannot do everything. so you have to "trust" and delegate the jobs.

But delegating the jobs doesn't mean you are not responsible anymore, you still have to answer to it, so you have to check on the people doing the jobs... That is why good leaders are always busy, even though they are suppose to be "free".

So yeah, don't trust anyone, and make sure of the stuff yourself. delegate the duties, but still remain responsible. that is the way.

Gedanken SG

then the person will have a bitter, lonely and pointless life...

Not to mention that all they're doing is hiding their fear behind cynicism instead of facing it.

henshin SG

I heard of a quote "People build walls instead of bridges". I totally agree with this, people always afraid of other hurting themselves. They protect themselves from everything, causing lesser communication between people and that is when the misunderstanding comes in. I think we should learn to trust each other to make our life better, a world with no war.

brainerror SG

no comment

theme_and_guess SG

does this include your family?? u need to trust someone in life.... if u dont, then i have no idea what kinda life ur gonna go thru

Fugazzi SG

No man is an island – yes, cliched, jaded expression! Whether u trust another or …. is reflective of what you are, if u trust no one – others are merely a means to your ends. Simply put, i m being rude here – u use others —one can add …... and the ultimate insult is to use another to fulfil oneself.

Principles are a by-product of one’s conditioning, ethics is inner – the former is bound by rules and … the latter – none – its the intuitive heart.

Socialist SG

When a good person, physically and spiritually, gets thrown into a world obsessed with money and power, that person's physical existence is slowly slipping away. Thrown into a world that is cruel and chaotic, his eyes are opened to the fragility that defines the realm of the living.

most times, suspicious or paranoid people are good people hold a kind of personal power, for they are afraid of whats going to get them than to get people.

Gedanken SG

most times, suspicious or paranoid people are good people hold a kind of personal power, for they are afraid of whats going to get them than to get people.

Do explain, what kind of power does being shit-scred give them?

Socialist SG

Do explain, what kind of power does being shit-scred give them?

In my opinion, fear is anthropological. We fear the dark, big monsters, ect. This causes our body to react, such as widened pupils and more blood being redirected to our muscles.

Paranoia is more psychological. We're paranoid someone is out to get us. It's usually a result of our mind not thinking logically because of past tramatizations or chemical/serotonin imbalances.

Both are closely related but at times tend to exibit the same symptoms

Socialist SG

paranoid people tend to reanalyse and analyse things carefully than the average normal person. They are also prejudiced towards the negative in some ways.

The slightest of things will arouse their suspicion. n the sense that they tend to see the world differently than the rest. These people have helped to world to see dark things that are hidden beaneath the shadows.

gigabyte14 SG

i trust everyone