yah, u r right:) no one wants to be the culprit, guess he wants
to leave without guilt?
War of attrition lor or probability itis lack of courage to say
that he no longer is willing to water the plant of .... (whatever
it means to u or him).
I would not suggest talking , one does not change another, u
bring a dog home and say u love it, and then u want it to behave
like a cat
Walk away, gracefully and let him be - misery nourishes the ego,
happiness n love diffuses the ego, catch no ball? its ok lor