Serene,
Why do you need permission to leave him ?
Obviously the relationship is not working out for the both of
you. It doesn't matter if he is having an affair or not.
Are you trying to convince yourself that he wouldn't treat you
this way , if he is not having an affair ?
Trust me, not all guys will treat their gf bad when they are
eating side dishes else where. At least the smart ones don't.
You must be thinking.. well if he doesn't love me, he'd have
broken up with me , yes ?
Unfortunately, he's the one who is treating you bad and you're
the one taking his craps. So, why should he leave you ?
Try treating him like dirt.. he'll be the first one to run out
the door. Don't believe me ? Try it.
Why ofcors it's all your fault. If you leave him.. it's your
fault.. if he leaves you.. it's also your fault. So who cares who
initiated it. Its YOUR fault anyway.
