hopeless

jojobeach SG

stil d same …..

Serene,

There's only 2 possibilities.

1. He is your first boyfriend.. so you never experienced a GOOD relationship before.

2. All your past relationship has been BAD.

Only those who has never had a good relationship will cling on to a bad one.

I know you are working hard to build a good relationship.

But your boyfriend is not interested.

It's only a one way street now.

Ask yourself. How many more years you want wasted on this guy.. when you can actually live a happier life without him.

It is about time.. you sacrifice this relationship so that he may learn that his ways are not acceptable. For as long as his current behavior continues... all his future relationship will fail.

I don't know what's your age. But I assume you must be rather young to be willing to let unhappiness dominate your life for a while.

But let me caution you ok ?

Now you may think you can afford to continue this relationship because you are still young.

But by the time you are ready to settle.. you will realize this guy is not right for settling.

So either you marry a lousy guy, or spend the rest of your life with him until he decides to dump you.

Or you start all over again finding the Mr. Right, and by then.. 90% has been taken. And perhaps when you finally found one... you are past your prime.. and that Mr. Right wants a younger woman.

Don't put yourself in a regrettable position...

When it comes to relationship.. you need to think far. Because you cannot turn back time.

Good luck and be strong.

Fantagf SG

understand that sometimes it takes courage to break off with someone.

Fugazzi SG

The quality of one's life is the quality of one's ability to RELATE - whether its work, friends, ....... relating is difficult but that is the only way to go - relationship(s) is a thing - the other has been reduced to a thing, how to relate to a dead thing! The crux of it is this - when u enslave another ( in the guise of love - when in reality it is fear of loss, needs .....) u also become a slave. When one is self-fuliflled - one shares, when one is not - one seeks out another - and u know lar - its either a melodrama or psychodrama

ItchyArmpit SG

Thanks 4 all the responses. some of the signs:
a) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house
b) stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
c) Late nites drank or no returning
d) seems less comfortable around mi and easily moved to anger.
e) sleeps with hp by the bed
f) lying his whereabout
g) mobile on silence mode
h) late nite calls
i) cannot confront or talk abt it – more storming blame on mi for starting a prob
etc…....

signs of a jealous bf... spend more time with him... show him that he is ur only one.. ask him why he is doing this.. tell him that u are able to do everything for him.. let him mature.. if he dun understand, and wants u to break ur relationships with ur friends, then it is up to u if u wan a immature bf..

Doraemonboi SG

Hi I'm new here. Pardon me - not familiar if there is any hse rule for posting.

Am stuck in a hopeless relship. unexplanable telltale signs of partner wierd behaviors getin mi insane.

Anyone would like to share views?

i ownself cannot even handle mine own one le =[

Fantagf SG

i ownself cannot even handle mine own one le =[

boy, concentrate on your study. now gf not priority yet.

Serene.serene99 SG

ThkQ all pals 4 d kind wishing and insightful comments Smile

Jojobeach’s ”......... or spend the rest of your life with him until he decides to dump you…..”
> tis wld be v pathetic indeed Sad

so far it’s been quite a consistent feedbk – to let go! feel better tat my gut feelin of his behaviors somehow quite inline with most of u (unlike his blaming…...)

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