so should i have used the voucher?

last SG · 2009-04-01T20:10:18+00:00

Compromising, changing they are two different words with similar but totally different meanings. We shouldn't blame it on the guy, as see-ing things from he'...

Detached SG

May I ask both your age and occupation?

jayh272416 SG

i know why he reacted tis way roughly, his perception of me is that i spend alot (which is true in the past) now i save a chunk of my allowance monthly, eat less etc if i want to buy something, and recently i've only been buying things that are on quite a huge discount, or like the voucher thing... he even has a problem with me buying drinks when i'm out because he said it's expensive, and when i said it's because i thirsty he replied "oh, i thought you just want to spend money." !!! i feel like i'm in the wrong all the time till i can't differentiate right or wrong anymore

since he cant trust you, why do u still stick on to him?

elindra SG

-_-"

I think he going overboard and to be honest if I were you I would drop him like a stone and not waste my time.

So he wants you to die from thirst issit? You're not even spending his money. Soif the public toliet need you to pay 10 cents for entry he is going to question you if you must pay 10 cents to use the toliet???

MooKu SG

Doesn't really make sense.

He has a problem with your old spending habits. If you spent $23 on that pair of shoes, I can see why he reacted the way he did (although it's still too much to walk out just over a reasonably small purchase, not like you bought a car). But the shoes were free!

the Bear SG

uhh.. the guy's got a problem...

imagine.. something that trivial sets him off, what will happen when major things come up?

kopiosatu SG

eh this guy good

save money

because he probably feels its that a wedding is a waste of money

i like

LizV SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

Dead_Man_Inc SG

maybe he's hinting u to get him a pair of canvas?

but anyway, he shouldn't have flare up on such a trival matter

gasband SG

sorry i gave u the voucher.

kopiosatu SG

its a friggin voucher

what do u mean "what should i do?"

i say go back to your studies instead of thinking about this kind of thing

the Bear SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

this is going to be brutal...

CONCENTRATE ON YOUR STUDIES!

go out as friends.. both of you aren't even near to being ready for a relationship..

elindra SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

What should you do?

Dump him and concentrate on your studies.

Jeez. If he's going to flip over something minor like that and over YOUR things and YOUR right, he has a huge ego problem or just an ultra huge MCP

So if it's something major, what's he gonna do? Go berserk and go on a rampage???

Seriously, know your rights.
He is just your boyfriend and not your keeper and he don't have a say on how you wanna use your voucher -_-"

He's not even giving you the basic respect you deserve; which is respecting YOUR decision on how you wanna make use of YOUR voucher

I can't believe that not only are you not angry with him for being a jerk, you are wondering if you're in the wrong -_-"

Detached SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

Did he behave like this? Or this is only recent?

My initial suspicion was that you had a higher income than him and it's causing him to feel inferior.. thus explaining his behavior..

Tell me, how's your family background like? How about his? Well-to-do? Who's usually pay for stuff when you guys go out? Or do you guys go dutch?

parn SG

today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...

we spent the day mostly in (went out for awhile in the morning, lunch, watched a dvd)...then he suddenly notices a new pair of canvas shoes on my floor. to cut it short, i bought the shoes ($23) using a voucher my friend gave me (he had no use for it) and now my bf is angry, reason being he said "do you need the shoes? you could have given the voucher to someone else...etc..."

i dont have many pairs of shoes (3 in total not including 2 pairs of slippers). should i have given the voucher away instead of using it myself? it kinda sucks because we're supposed to spend the day happily today.....sigh....

You decide what you want to do with your voucher, and don't ask stupid question again.

Dead_Man_Inc SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

what more can you do? throw away the shoe?

XxYaNxX SG

today's my bf and my 2nd year anniversary...

It's your voucher not his. Why are you with a guy like him ?

gasband SG

you should have sold the voucher in MARKETPLACE but remember to ignore people who goes "Eh BROTHER/SISTER, too expensive leh."

kiseki SG

It's not about the voucher, it's about him.

jayh272416 SG

Detached: we're both 19 this year. i'm in college and he's in poly.

what should i do?

ur in COLLEGE

hes in POLY

what is he compared to you? just break up with him. im sure given ur age and your current situation u can find another guy who deserves you.

the Bear SG

if you continue this way, you have a great future as a doormat

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