hi there
i didnt want to really hang out at sg forums as u can see its my
first few posting as i always thought sg forums are for kids.
but your post happened to be the first one on the forum so i m
here,, and i started reading so i decided to do some analysis
so simple and then i realised its a tale.
because all your facts dont match. if u went to a good UK
university , would ur english be so poor until u have typos? most
sg pple wont even have any typos in their work because english is
so natural to them already. and SIM dont have a master in finance
only tax. since i am a bit free now due to a meeting being
cancelled then i can slowly guess what happened.
i guess that the gal is the one who is an auditor and
taking master course because only gals are auditors because of the
soft skills needed to do the job and hardworking enough to
take additional certs and u are the one who is sleeping around and
then after discovering that she is about to dump u , which is a hit
to your ego , u tried to discredit her first by saying she is loose
and be a good man in this respect.
if she went with a married guy then she must be really
courageous for love or plain silly to sacrifice her name for
nothing.
anyway if u really love your gal , greater love is to consider
and or even accept as i know of a brother who did tat.
but its quite telling that u cant even stand receiving sms from her
every day which means there is no proper communication and u dont
enjoy talking to her and not even spending time with her then
wat kind of a relationship are u expecting . the unfaithfulness
issue being so important means u are looking more to a physical
relationship tats all which is not to be blamed but its just
immature.
and anyway if u are so stressed over her which means u actually
loved her then u should seek psychological counselling to examine
ur wandering thoughts. i am a guy and i know what that means. i got
a strong brain and strong body to resist temptations but i guess UK
had taught pple bad - cocaine ? no one smokes cocaine
in sg. only UK.
ok stop dissing a fellow man who is weak i should be aunt agony
now ok cut off the relationship for u have no time and u
dont enjoy communicating with your gal then how to get close plus u
have some psychological problem as mentioned from your earlier post
of some suspicous stuff
anyway with ur kind of ungracious lower level thinking which is
very clear from your attitudes and speech which thinks that only
they are holy and others are not holy which dont really demonstrate
the better ideals in life
oh i saw many case of adultery that is almost all the time
due to the men straying or having affairs because its just normal
so i naturally jumped to the guy first even when i am a guy.
only guys will see sex as important and sex in a woman is
condemnation if its not with him. sad to know of this kind of dark
thinking still exist. cant be helped loh
unfaithful men are common but unfaithful women are not exactly
common as most women tend to value marriage unless they belong to
the super extroverted types
so i guess its a men issue here sad to say bud u are in the
wrong and its even more wrong not to admit and instead blame a
woman for your mistake like no communication and no time which
indicate no love loh then why are u with the gal ?
i was just unlucky to be born with many elder sisters so i do
respect women a fair bit , they are not just objects of play but
really people whom u can spend time with and share a life
with. too bad u got youur priorities wrong
thick skinned from ur nick i already knew u are a damm good
liar, only a liar can lie like anything if they are thick
skinned.
pity the gal.
If you want to pick other people's fault, I will pick your EVERY
fault.
