ok
i am doubly confirmed that this thickskin is just riding on sg
forummer concern and pity
look at his other earlier posts on his so called gal fren and
his attitude
http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/233270
http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/301858
i mean his attitude as a guy sucks and i think he is not really
honest and truthful so i dont think he actually love the gal
instead its all a make believe story to make himself and his
achievement look better than others!
pinhead! other guys responses are so much better and they are
actually trying to help you but instead u take their sympathy for
granted.
this man is a liar and he thinks its a mans way... so let other
men prove that its not necessary to resort to despicable means in
order to get what u want.
asshole.
if i am not wrong he is just a serial pilanderer and reveling in
this kind of farce.
from what he wrote on the earlier messages - if anyone who had
any real understanding of what is a relationship its very clear
that this guy is not sincere and there is no real relationship -
there is never any mention of actual care and concern just excuses
and the constant focus on the sexual aspect instead of other
elements that make a good relationship.
if i were the gal , i would also ditch him . just shaming all
the guys for being "uncontrollable" while rationising his
actions as being right and thinking that all females are just
stupid.
I had refrain from replying to you and your presumed efforts so as
not to deny you the right to express yourself.
This is a place where folks who have issues would come here to
seek solutions or just have their problems bared, someone to
listen, AND not be to subjected to a thorough
civil investigation.
This site is but a place for them to bare their thoughts without
fear or favour. and at times, may be the only place of annonymity
to bare it. Some of the tales here may be true, or be false, or
something that happened to someone else and they didnt understand
and would like to seek an understanding.
Most who show concern or help do it willingly, not for money or
for fame, nothing more than an expression of their thoughts of
concern for their own fellow-person who cried for help.
If such cries are fake, then it is not the counsellor who is
made a fool. He/she gave with an open heart but was abused by a
despicable scum. It is the despicable scum who is the fool and will
have to pay a price one day. No person escapes from guilt
which will come around one day to haunt him.
It is better to err on the side of helpfulness, than to be too
cautious and suspect everyone else is a clown and ignore offering
help. At times, a precious life may be involved, and the counsellor
will be one who will be haunted by guilt, just as many of us were
when a 14 yr old teenager was murdered by her own mother, her cries
denied and not recognised by her friends.
I do respect your concern for others and not wish to see them
being taken for a ride, but here many are not stupid and willingly
gave their thoughts, not only to help any TS on his/her own thread,
but an open source to others who may fear or do not know how to
express themselves in writing, that they may relate and have an
understanding as well.
There is a larger picture than you may presume on your perceived
superficial level of one thread. Each bring his/her own level of
expertise and experience into a thread, to contribute towards the
well being of our fellow society members, for good or for bad which
the reader must intelligently and analytically discern, proving we
may not be as apathetic a society as many presumed.
I personally thank you for your efforts, but I sincerly hope you
will understand what i had posted, and perhaps be more astute,
charitable and prudent should you wish to offer your assitance to
your fellow society member.
Good luck and peace.
