You said you know what to decide..?
So what have you decided..?
Let me tell you what you should decide.
Cut off all contacts with her, and do not ever visit any
prostitutes again.
I can see where your path is going, if you insist in trying to
"save" her.
You will just have lots of messy business and will eventually
break up with her.
How long have you known her..?
You said u have bad experiences with 8 other girlfriends before
this...what makes you so sure this one is so special..?
Just because you met her and lovey-dovey, what does that
supposed to mean..? Why not you call a helpline or a chatline, or
visit counsellors, they can also make you to open up. But what does
that mean...? Does that mean anything..?
You met her in a vulnerable state, and she was also in a
vulnerable state, that doesnt mean anything.
I think you better wake up.
Maybe I can give you a different kind of suggestion....
Try to focus on career....money....dont think so much about
girls....do you understand what Im saying.....focus your mind
elsewhere. Think of your future plans....make some goals....be more
ambitious....persue those goals...
If you put your mind on work and career, you wont think so much
about girls anymore....and wont be so down depressed and
self-pitying yourself like that anymore....
Shift your attention elsewhere.
For this case, take it as a bad episode and a mistake of
youth.
Do not go deeper. Extricate yourself.
I think you must be very careful and weigh the words that I say.
If you go deeper, you will just eventually carry more emotional
burden, have lower self-esteem, and have more issues in the
future.
Certain mistakes are hard to recover from. These kinds of
dangerous minefields can seriously scar you for life and affect
your sense of self-worth. Nothing good will come out of it. You
just had a fatamorgana, you were in a vulnerable state. Now wake up
and face the real world and be a man.
I recommond you to cut off all contacts with her, no more
visiting prostitutes of any kind, work on your career, save some
money, and search a real girlfriend.
That is in sequential order....you have to do it in that
order.....
First you need to build up your career up to a certain level
first....before you can attract serious girlfriends....do u
understand....so work on it...
Finding prostitutes is a shortcut and a remedy that does not
work.....no good will come out of it....it makes you sidetracked
and makes you dizzy....and will make you wounded and have issues in
life.....
It is not going to succeed.....u better change course now.....I
think you can understand what I say.
Meat Pao.
