A bird is never meant to be kept in the cage. Even a guilded
one. Birds must be free in order to appreciate the beauty of them
blending into nature, giving you great joy.
So must love be not kept caged in order that you may experience
true happiness.
You are attempting to cage her, akin to holding water in your
hands. You still have a beautiful relationship with her. Don't make
that terrible mistake MOST men do, and that is to CAGE her. She
will feel stifled and in time get bored being caged by you, no
matter how good you may think you treat her. Ultimately, she will
fly away.
Let her have her friends and party all she likes. If she truly
loves you, her heart belongs to you, no matter whose hand she holds
or lips she kisses. Being
young means making mistakes, it is perfectly normal and ok,You both
are not married yet, do remember. And true love is more than
skin deep. She and you are not objects to be admired and then put
away back on the shelf when bored.
As long as you both are not married, it is ALWAYS best to be
friends. Aim to be the one whom she will come
running to, not someone else as she is doing now. Win her trust and
love, not by being a prison warden, but a forest ranger who
keeps the beauty of nature free.
The happiest couples are those whom married as friends and
not as prisoners to each other.