You have been together for three years & he hasnt change a
tiny bit? Wat makes u think that he will change after
marriage? U want to take tat risk? Using ur life's
happiness??
I have been & seen similar incidents where the women stayed
by their men's side for at least two years, some woke
up & move on. The others, like u, even tho' tired of
their men's behavior, still hopin that they will change after
marriage. After marriage, some of them cant take it any
longer, they decided to move on. While some of the women toil
on, still grabbin the hope. In the end, they have children
& aged, and their then useless boyfriend now, useless husband
has not change a teeny bit. But it's oready too late, cos
those women has given up everything to a faint hope tat their man
will change.
Is that what you want?